our first time... well, kind of

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Registered: 09-18-2005
our first time... well, kind of
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Sun, 02-12-2006 - 12:30am
so me and my bf are going to have sex for the first time. well sort of... the thing is, we have been together for almost 6 months and have had sex many times before, just never in a room, on a bed. sorry if i sound crude or something but weve always done it in his truck *its the only private place we have!* but now have the chance to do it in his house. the thing is, im nervous! i want to be relaxed and more into it but i just cant shake these nerves, i want to make it fun! any suggestions?
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Registered: 01-11-2006
Sun, 02-12-2006 - 1:21am
I know how you feel! When my husband and I were dating we spent about 2 1/2 years of having sex in the back of his truck. he had a topper on his truck, and had 2 layers of sleeping bags and some couch cusions for comfort. Doing it in a bed was very nice. You have so much more room, and it opens up a world of new positions! His truck topper was so low I couldn't even sit up all the way (I'm tall). Have fun, an ddon't be nervous. Is it the opennes you're worried about? Or the more light you'll have. If you're worried about how you look, then go under the covers, and only turn a little light on. We have a touch-lamp, and we keep it on the lowest setting. It's more romantic than regular light. The main thing is to relax and have fun! It's a great opportunity!

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