Painful oral

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Registered: 04-25-2007
Painful oral
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Fri, 04-27-2007 - 1:49am
Ok well this happens alot when im giving my SO oral he says it feels wierd like good and bad at the same time, and he asks me to stop, since he obviously doesnt enjoy that i asked him why and i think its sorta like if u get fingered and someone rubs right on ur clit well its good but it hurts at the same time, like its hurting him at the head of his penis, i dont know maybe hes a bit sensitive but its bugging me since i always have to stop and it doesnt make me feel great to know that im hurting him when its meant to feel good
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Registered: 03-31-2007
In reply to: hazelleyez
Fri, 04-27-2007 - 7:08am

Is it possible your teeth are rubbing against him? If not, then -- as weird as it may sound -- perhaps it is too dry. Especially late at night, I have trouble producing enough saliva, so I have started using flavored lube. Maybe give that a try and see if it makes a difference.

Recently, I saw flavored lube in the local CVS store, so you don't even have to go to a sex shop to get it!



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Registered: 04-25-2007
In reply to: hazelleyez
Fri, 04-27-2007 - 9:03am
i know for sure its neither of those things
lol apparently i produce more saliva than the average person so im good there
and its not my teeth! i know for sure!
i dont know maybe hes extra sensitive
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Registered: 10-28-2006
In reply to: hazelleyez
Fri, 04-27-2007 - 3:34pm

He sounds sensitive. Does he want you to keep trying?
Because if he doesn't I'd stop! lol. If he does want you to
keep trying. Just use your tongue and not your mouth and see
if that helps.

Kareese

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Registered: 04-25-2007
In reply to: hazelleyez
Fri, 04-27-2007 - 8:28pm
yeh he seems to like it and then after a while he'll make me stop
but he always seems to want it again