Parents finding out u started having sex
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| Tue, 11-02-2004 - 1:51pm |
Both my mom and my bf's parents don't know we're having sex. My mom knows I'm on bc but she thinks it's because my doctor recommended it so that my cycle becomes regular and all of that. The only time we really get to go at it is Fridays when nobody is home at his house. We were talking about them finding out one day and we both were like "OMGOSH".
Anyways, he had a dream that his parents found the condoms from his room and sprawled them out on the table and when he got home from work they confronted him.
When I think about that idea of them confronting him or even worse, us, it freaks me out. His parents are so amazing to me and I feel like I've corrupted their son lmao. I'm exaggerating. I just feel kind of weird on how to approach the situation if it ever came up that either of our parents found out.
Mind you, my mom is very "Sex is for marriage; anybody who has sex out of marriage is a SL*T" and his parents are very tight-lipped about the whole thing. The only thing his mother has ever said to him was "I know things happen. Just be careful." Those are our experiences with dealing with sex from our parents...
Anybody have experiences, when your parents or your SO's parents found out that you were having sex??

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It also sounds a little like you'd want to argue it out with her -- the unreasonableness of her position. I don't think you'd have much luck given the emotional quotient of sex and daughters. My experience: after I was married, I was having a conversation with my mom about her friend's college-age daughter who was sexually active. My mom started crying and said that in their day, nice girls just didn't do that. There was no way I could tell her about my past. At least you are being responsible and are in a relationship! I was a sl*t! :) jk
Could you move out and support yourself? If that is not a possibility, I would not invite disaster by confronting her with something she has been very clear about.
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