Penetration question

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Penetration question
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Tue, 05-27-2008 - 2:42am

My last two lovers experienced the sensation of penetration as if it extended beyond what is physically possible. In the 1st case, up to the bottom of the breast bone, in the second case to the base of the throat. This was entirely pleasurable to the women. One of them coined the term, "shafts of light" to describe the sensation. The woman who experienced penetration to the base of the throat sometimes experienced a tickle in the throat which made her cough.

Previous lovers did not mention this experience, and my last two lovers had not experienced it with anyone else.

I am not aware of anything I, or these women did to cause this sensation.

I am not particularly big. "Only slightly bigger than average," according to one of the women.

Has anyone experienced this or heard of anyone who has? Does anyone know what causes it?

TIA,

First line edited for clarity based on suggestions by xploziv1.

Edited 5/27/2008 4:13 am ET by high2008




Edited 5/27/2008 4:17 am ET by high2008

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Registered: 08-12-2002
Tue, 05-27-2008 - 3:22am

Huh?

 


 


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Registered: 05-26-2008
Tue, 05-27-2008 - 3:48am

Hi xploziv1,

If I change the first line:

"My last two lovers have experienced penetration which extended beyond what is physically possible."

to read:

"My last two lovers experienced the sensation of penetration as if it extended beyond what is physically possible."

Would that make it clearer?

I didn't mean to suggest a physical impossibility, just the feeling two women described to me.

Regards,

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Registered: 08-12-2002
Tue, 05-27-2008 - 4:07am
Well I still stand by what I said in my second paragraph.

 


 


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Registered: 03-03-2008
Tue, 05-27-2008 - 4:17am

You may want to look into Kundalini and Tantra/tantric sexual practices.

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Registered: 08-09-2007
Tue, 05-27-2008 - 6:07am
I totally agree with Laura (the poster above me). I can't think of any other explanation than a flow of energy. And they liked it, so it's a good thing. What surprises me is that two different women have had this experience with you, although it seems to be quite uncommon and although you were not aiming for it. Maybe you have a gift (better, "purer" energy than most people or something). It's very interesting.

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Registered: 03-31-2007
Tue, 05-27-2008 - 10:33am

Welcome to the board, high2008.

Is this something that has happened more than once with either of the lovers? It would be interesting if you could figure out what it is that you do differently during those times.





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Registered: 05-26-2008
Wed, 05-28-2008 - 7:35am

feathersndreams said: "You may want to look into Kundalini and Tantra/tantric sexual practices."

scorpionwoman79 said: "I can't think of any other explanation than a flow of energy."

Your ideas about Kundalini, tantric practices and energy match closely with my own. It seemed to me it had to be spiritual, since it obviously couldn't be physical.

feathersndreams hit the nail on the head when she wrote, "I'd say just enjoy it." The thing is I'm not enjoying it any more (the second of these two women & I broke up in January.)

scorpiowoman79 wrote: "it seems to be quite uncommon"

I'm not sure what you mean here, but just to clarify, the two relationships covered all of the last 15 years with a very short gap between. Both relationships were wholly monogamous, at least on my side.

When this thing happened with the first woman, I assumed it was something we created together, so I was pleasantly surprised when it happened with the second woman too.

My fear is that it won't be the same with a future lover.

cl-misty_mae wrote: "Is this something that has happened more than once with either of the lovers? It would be interesting if you could figure out what it is that you do differently during those times."

My understanding is that both of the women experience it every time we made love. With the first woman, it required vigorous thrusting on my part, but with the second woman, just being inside her caused the sensation.

Thanks, I really appreciate this discussion. As you can imagine, this has been the cause of great deal of curiosity on my part and not easy to discuss face to face.

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Registered: 04-06-2007
Wed, 05-28-2008 - 8:35am

Just one favor - when/if you find out how this occurs...please do share with us on the board.

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Registered: 08-09-2007
Wed, 05-28-2008 - 3:22pm
scorpiowoman79 wrote: "it seems to be quite uncommon"
I'm not sure what you mean here, but just to clarify, the two relationships covered all of the last 15 years with a very short gap between.

I mean it's something that I don't hear about a lot. In fact, I think it's the first time I've ever seen this description of a sexual experience.


It is said that, when the Kundalini energy rises, it is often felt like a "shaft of light" (as your lover put it) along the spine. I understand she didn't feel that along the spine, but it seems quite close, so maybe it was something like that. The "tickle in the throat" feeling is also something that I've heard of in relation to energy rising (it appears to occur if there are blocked energy channels in the throat area, that don't let the energy flow).


My understanding is that both of the women experience it every time we made love.

Oh my goodness, now THAT's rare! As far as I know, if we're right and this is an energy thing, these things usually happen when the two partners really love each other AND aim for this kind of experience (they use various techniques to make this happen). In other cases, it appears to be an experience triggered by very profound emotions, even if no techniques are used (for instance, two lovers who have been away from each other for a long time and have missed each other deeply may experience this the first time they make love again). But in the latter case, it's not something that happens all the time.


My fear is that it won't be the same with a future lover.

You say this didn't happen with the women you were with before these two. Maybe you simply reached a different stage in your personal development that made it possible. Maybe your relationships with these two women were more profound and loving than your previous ones. And I suppose the women's capacity to have this kind of experience also mattered, even though they hadn't experienced it with anyone else. Don't worry. Since it happened with two different people, not just one, I think chances are it can happen with the third one, too.

ScorpioWoman, Proud Winner of the 2008 Victor Hugo Memorial Run-On Sentence Award


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Registered: 05-24-2008
Wed, 05-28-2008 - 4:19pm
I have experienced that in a certain position - it felt like tingling going up my spine.

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