penis bulge

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Sun, 07-23-2006 - 12:33am
It doesn't matter, but this is something I've been wandering about....I've heard that you can't tell the size of a man's penis by his feet and hands. But can you, by looking at his bulge through his pants, tell how big he really is during the important stuff?
I've only been with my husband. He does'nt really have a big bulge, and when soft he looks to be small (about cocktail weeny size I guess, maybe a little bigger). When he gets fully erect, he appears a little over average (from what I've heard).
So my question stands, if you see a man with a big bulge, does that mean he is well over average size when erect?
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Registered: 07-05-2005
In reply to: charmasak
Mon, 07-31-2006 - 3:23am

Studies indicate it's only 'important' to sizequeens and yes they only make up a small percentage of women. Only sizequeens would reject a man because of size, except in some extreme cases where a guy is too huge or too very small, for then a few/some non sizequeens will also. You did in your post what I have said before is done in posts here over and over, and not just by you - isolate the discussion to only sizequeens. I didn't just speak about sizequeens. There are plenty of non sizequeens - ones who don't put importance on it, and yet do have a preference. It's not important to them though. And of course non sizequeens won't reject a man because of size. That doesn't change it that they have a preference, just because they don't put importance on it and won't reject a man on that. This idea pushed often at Ivillage that it makes no difference about size provided it's not extremely small or too big" is not what polls say, for only a small percentage of women vote it makes no difference. It's made to sound the other way around here, as though 'makes no difference' gets the vast majority of votes. Incorrect. 7"length tends to be the favorite, 6" length a close second, and 8" length a close third. 5" and 9" both about tie for a distant 4th/5th. All of theses choices are not important to women (except to sizequeens), but it's icing on the cake for them, so it does 'matter' at least to some degree. Extra girth is always the heavy favorite, hands down. Notice I didn't say all women prefer extra girth, just the majority. The idea pushed here at Ivillage that size matters to just a small percentage of women is almost always done by isolating it to sizequeens - by using the word 'matters' to indicate it's either all or none for women. Actually it does 'matter' to non size queens also (except for the small percentage that vote it makes no difference). It's just doesn't matter to non size qeens nearly as much as it matters to sizequeens.

Btw, we are able to gain girth from pe by specific exercises geared for just for girth. Also, many guys when doing length exercises gain some girth as a side effect (jelqing creates expansion, and also, pulling the inner penis out from stretching pulls out extra thickness for many guys). One must be even more careful with girth exercises. It has been more prone to cause some injury than length exercises. Both are risky if done without complete understanding, but even well studied experienced PEers have to be on their toes when it comes to girth gaining. I don't know why I'm explaining this, you don't believe me anyway. Can't you tell I'm not lying to you? You're hardheaded Kat.

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Registered: 06-29-2006
In reply to: charmasak
Mon, 07-31-2006 - 1:13pm
I think it would be ludicrous for one to say that size matters more to most women than it does to some men.
If a guy is endowed with a less than average size, it will always be in the back of his mind anytime he is involved in a failed relationship that included sexual intimacy.
As far as all these alleged enhancement programs go, I have yet to see where any guy who was smaller than the accepted average size has ever reported any gains from them.
I tried them all, and only noticed a reduction in my bank acccount.
When I found that I was getting pain from the exercises, I went to my physician and his reccomendation was to STOP doing anything that was causing the pain
I have found that his advice was the best to follow.
once.
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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: charmasak
Mon, 07-31-2006 - 3:07pm
I agree with you. It's been there who seems to believe otherwise. And I just don't understand how a man would think that adding an inch or two, MAYBE, would suddenly change the opinion of his partner(s).
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In reply to: charmasak
Mon, 07-31-2006 - 3:13pm

Hardheaded? Maybe. Or far from convinced. But you must get some sort of sexual thrill out of discussing this subject, been. I just can't believe that you spend this amount of time on the subject or practice.

And if some women do have a preference, then they have that right. It's certainly about time that men had some heat put on them to measure up.

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Registered: 12-20-2004
In reply to: charmasak
Tue, 08-01-2006 - 9:22am
Been this is what you dont understand.. A preference does not necessarly mean that it feels better..I like a taller woman as a preference, but my wife is only 5`3..makes NO difference.. women I have talked to over the years cant tell the difference between a 7" penis and a 5" penis, unless thay are hitting bottom. Most do not like that sensation.Most women who guestimate a length are normally wrong anyways. I was guessed at 9" and 8" .. Im not that long (7). A preference might be because it looks cool, but as a sexual tool, will not make a difference.(in the vast majority of women)
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Registered: 06-29-2006
In reply to: charmasak
Tue, 08-01-2006 - 12:54pm
Were this possible, (adding an inch or TWO), in some cases, it could increase the man's size by as much as fifty percent.
It's hard to say how this would affect one's SO.
once.
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Registered: 12-19-2002
In reply to: charmasak
Tue, 08-01-2006 - 1:55pm

"But can you, by looking at his bulge through his pants, tell how big he really is during the important stuff?"


Like somebody else said, the whole package can affect what a bulge seen in pants

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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: charmasak
Tue, 08-01-2006 - 4:40pm

Listen, if there was a procedure or exercise that could increase a man's length by TWO inches, say take a man from 7 inches to 9, we would ALL know about it! It would be on the evening news.

But these exercises can only promise small gains,if that, which won't make much difference to a woman's experience.

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Registered: 07-05-2005
In reply to: charmasak
Tue, 08-01-2006 - 11:05pm
The overall average gain from exercises is about 3/4" in length. I'm not sure what the overall girth gain is. The only reason why the overall average isn't more is because it is a lot of work, and extra gains do tend to become more difficult, so many fall by the wayside after some time. A few that have stayed with it fairly consistently for years, and have slowly climbed into even more advanced schedules, have gained 2 to 3 inches. It appears that it does becomes extremely difficult to gain past 2", but can be done. So far I've gained 1 1/4" in length, but only 1/4" in girth. It's generally thought that doing length exercises first for a goal,and only then going to girth exercises, will maximize gains, or at least make it a bit easier. A thicker dick is harder to lengthen. So that's why I started with length exercises. There are some that just do the girth exercises first (not overly concerned it might their length gains later on, or they don't plan on doing length exercises) and many gain at least 1/2" in girth with some gaining 1" girth and more. Very big girth gains are rare, but 2" in girth have been gained if one is extremely focused and stays at it for years. I take a laid back approach with pe, but I do stay with it, though not as consistently lately. I've had a lot going on in my life lately, but do want to get back on track with the exercises. I don't want to keep replying about this, but everytime I read here on this subject I keep seeing misinformation. Really. I feel stupid typing in response, as I believe those here want to think we are knuckle dragging, only a millimeter gaining, one subject living, out of touch with reality, lying , anti maindstream nuts. Don't we know what the experts say. Don't I realise I can't possibly have gained 1 1/4" in length. Ya have spoken, it can't be done. So be it, I'm really through this thread and this forum. Maybe in some ways you are very intelligent folks. I do believe you are. So why do you folks keep making these assumptions about something you really don't know much about. Speaking about "fact" this and "fact" that. Those who don't know any better may believe you, but I know better. Period. The end.
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Registered: 06-29-2006
In reply to: charmasak
Wed, 08-02-2006 - 1:28pm
Glad to hear things have gone so well for you.
Sadly, I never experienced any change whatsoever
in spite of years of attention devoted to various
programs.
Perhaps a different physical makeup is the reason.
I won't go into detail, but will volunteer that I
was born in the early forties and at that time,
a lot of the medical practices concerning new medications
was in it's infantcy. In any event, I was what was considered
a "preemie" in that I was far less than forty weeks of age when born.
In fact, since my weight was less than four pounds, at birth, I was what was considered at that time to be a "throw away".
This was later alleged to have been caused by some of the meds given my mother to prevent "morning sickness".
Of course, It's obvious that I survived and for the most part, appear to be normal in every way, so long as I keep most of my clothes on when around others.
At the same time, I doubt that I would devote any more time toward a PE program if another inch were to be my only reward.
once.