Penis measuring

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Registered: 05-18-2005
Penis measuring
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Thu, 07-14-2005 - 8:47pm

Okay, this one may seem weird, but...

before I was married, I used to really like finding out the size of the penis of the boyfriend I was dating. I know it sounds shallow, but I was just curious;) Most of the guys I dated would laugh at me when I said I wanted to measure their penis. And most of them wouldn't let me measure them unless I would make a deal to do something for them. But I have to tell you, only one of my boyfriends measured up to the size he had told me he was before being measured. All the others had exaggerated...hmmm, how come no one is surprised! :) Anyways, the biggest one was 6 and 1/4 inches and the smallest was 5 and 1/4 inches (in case anyone was curious!). And guys, please don't be offended. After all, I know plenty of guys who are really curious about bra sizes. I just want to know if anyone else is into measuring their lover's penis and how they measured up. And how did they react when you asked? I know we always made the measuring event a fun evening ;)

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Registered: 01-02-2005
Sat, 07-16-2005 - 8:22pm

In the end, the number attached to it doesn't matter. Its all about whether your partner's vagina (or mouth) can envelope it to the extent that either or both of you desire. Its not the wand that makes the magic...its the magician and his (stage) partner.

Big

ps. what good's a Porshe if it won't fit in the garage at night ??

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Sun, 07-17-2005 - 12:09am
I had a friend in high school who dated a guy who she measured just under 8 inches ,but she said if she gripped a little harder he "expanded" to 8....his football number...8. lol I enjoy measuring men because it gives me a sense of power and is very erotic! Of coarse the big guys were relaxed while the smaller were very particular making sure I gave them full credit. My friend and I had a saying in college that the guy needed to have more length than the heels we were wearing to "qualify". Don't worry guys the highest heels we had were 5 inches.lol
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Registered: 01-11-2004
Sun, 07-17-2005 - 10:29am

Hi blondeguitarman:

"No I don't think it's weird at all for a woman to ask to measure the guy she's dating - I had alot of women who dated me ask if it was OK with me for her to do so."

When I was dating in college (1970's), NOT ONE woman asked me my penis size. The dates were for college functions, footballl games etc. The women wanted to have fun and enjoy themselves. Then I met my future wife; things changed....

Mac

 

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Registered: 07-22-2004
Sun, 07-17-2005 - 11:43am

Whether we were playing cards or hung out on the CB radio or what have you, I've actually known several of those young ladies who joked around asking guys here and there, including myself, what their sizes were.

Granted, I it was all just joking, but they sure kept it up. Oh, and YES this happened in schools here and there too. Again, probably just poking fun and all, but regardless, I do remember them raising it as issue multiple times.

I don't know what to think of it all, really. All I know is that I married the right woman and really don't have any concern about it. I'm so ruined!, LOL! ;D

 

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Sun, 07-17-2005 - 11:59am

Hi CL-para:

"I've actually known several of those young ladies who joked around asking guys here and there, including myself, what their sizes were."

Did you have ANY young ladies WANT TO MEASURE YOUR PENIS? What decade was this?

Mac




Edited 7/17/2005 12:00 pm ET ET by macman04

 

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Registered: 03-13-2005
Sun, 07-17-2005 - 12:06pm
I had a girl measure mine last week, totally unprompted. We were just sitting on the couch and she was going down on me and I seem to remember it was particularly rigid (at least with me, there's hard and then there's HARD!). All of a sudden she went to get a ruler and measured it! Cute, very fun and totally unprompted, although she had been joking about wanting to do this for a few weeks.


Edited 7/17/2005 1:32 pm ET ET by tallhealthyguy
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Sun, 07-17-2005 - 12:40pm
Hello, I am new to here. I was wondering, when you measured do you press the ruler into the fat pad? Is that the correct way? I am not that big size wise, at 4.75"L x 5"around it puts me under average. If I push in to the fat pad it puts me at 5.25", on the small side of average. I know this sounds dumb, and I know it is how you use it that counts. It is just the fact of being below average that makes me self conscious. Ladies, if you meet someone who was a really great guy, would you end the relationship if he was just a bit under average. Any comments would help. Thank You. This is really a great message board. I hope you all are having a great weekend!
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Sun, 07-17-2005 - 1:07pm

Hi Rick. Welcome to the board!

I can only speak for myself, of course, but I've never been concerned about size. I have always felt that a man who cares about my pleasure and is a concerned and compassionate lover, is a much greater find than a man with an enormous penis.

At least 65% of my total pleasure comes from oral and manual stimulation anyway. Don't worry about your size, worry about what you can do with all the tools available to you.




Edited 7/17/2005 1:10 pm ET ET by katmandoo2001
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Sun, 07-17-2005 - 1:17pm

Hi Rick4fun, welcome to the board.


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Registered: 03-13-2005
Sun, 07-17-2005 - 1:35pm
I think the idea is just to figure out what's usable, i.e. what actually goes inside her vagina, so if you just rest the ruler on top of it that provides the realistic answer. I mean, yeah, you could push the ruler into yourself but aside from kidding yourself I'm not really sure what that accomplishes.