Penis not thick enough

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Registered: 01-22-2007
Penis not thick enough
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Mon, 01-22-2007 - 10:52am
My boyfriend's penis isn't as thick as I'd like it to be and I'm kind of not enjoying sex with him. What can I do to make sex more enjoyable?

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Registered: 12-12-2006
Mon, 01-22-2007 - 11:11am

Sex is more than intercourse, and if you're like 80% of women, you'll get your "enjoyment" during foreplay, from lots of oral and manual clitoral stimulation.

There's very little feeling inside your vagina...your true sex organ is your clitoris. If intercourse isn't "doing it' for you, try stimulating your clitoris at the same time, either yourself, or he can do it, or your position can do it....woman on top is best for that.

Also, you might be too well lubricated, which will cut down on friction and feeling. Try drying yourself off with a tissue if that seems to be a problem.

There's nothing you can to to make it bigger, so try different tactics and positions until you find one that satisfies you.




Edited 1/22/2007 11:24 am ET by sakura2006
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Registered: 06-29-2006
Mon, 01-22-2007 - 12:41pm

"My boyfriend's penis isn't as thick as I'd like it to be and I'm kind of not enjoying sex with him. What can I do to make sex more enjoyable?"

Has your boyfriend mentioned any complaints, as well?
There's nothing he can do to become larger, assuming he has completed puberty, other than to find another companion.
This option is open to you as well.
However, you do have the option of going the "kegal" route which requires some light exercises on your part to put your own genitals in optimum condition.
There are any number of sites available to you thru the internet to explain this program,if you lack familiarity.

once.
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Registered: 04-02-2004
Mon, 01-22-2007 - 7:35pm
Maybe your vagina is too big.
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Registered: 06-29-2006
Mon, 01-22-2007 - 9:30pm

"Maybe your vagina is too big"

Ha! Not likely. I have had the use of the same one for the last 46 years and it's still a highly tuned instrument.

once.
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Registered: 10-16-2006
Fri, 01-26-2007 - 1:46pm

Get a boyfriend with a thicker penis.

But whatever you do, be nice and don't mention to your guy. There's nothing he can do about it, and there's no reason to give him hangups over it.

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Registered: 12-19-2006
Sat, 01-27-2007 - 9:22am
Different positions should produce different sensations as some can also change your vagina shape. If you can find a position where his penis is rubbing your g-spot, you should have plenty of enjoyment. But really, most of the enjoyment comes from all the pleasures of sex and not just intercourse. I can't imagine any penis would be to skinny then.


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Registered: 03-11-2005
Sun, 01-28-2007 - 6:51am
Try doggy. This should help. Another is missionary with your legs on his shoulders. Above all have fun and enjoy sex.
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Registered: 06-29-2006
Sun, 01-28-2007 - 11:37am
Good advice. If the fit is as bad as she says, he's already looking elsewhere.
once.
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Registered: 01-27-2007
Sun, 01-28-2007 - 2:24pm
Not sure what you can do other than get a new boyfriend. Don't tell him....it would crush him. Good luck.
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Registered: 06-29-2006
Sun, 01-28-2007 - 3:16pm
I don't think she need worry about "crushing him".
If she were capable of that feat, this thread would never have been started by her.
once.

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