Penis Size Debate
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| Fri, 03-10-2006 - 11:37pm |
If others have seen my posts on penis size, completely ignore them because I often post when I am frustrated or temporarily insane.
Anyhow, the debate goes on and on, and reflecting on all the archives, it is the same story, but yet everyone can begin the debate all over, like me. Here is my take on it.
Does size matter? Depends. If yes, how much? Depends.
I took a rough survey using the 700 plus posts on the subject and I have come up with really rough numbers that classify 4 types of women. Now, women who dont really care about size because they dont really care too much about sex are not included. I am tempted to not include women who have only had less than 3 partners, but I figured that is too discriminating, although 80% of women now probably do have at least 3 partners, so.....
Anyhow, here is my take
35%(group A) Size doesnt matter in the slightest for all intensive purposes
45%(group B) They "prefer" big enough to feel completely full, but if not, no worries.
15%(group C) They NEED to feel quite full.
5% (group E) size queen (Need to be filled and a whole lot more!)
I dont want to get into semantics about G-spots, hot spots in the vagina, size of vagina, etc. Lets just say that being full means a very snug/tight feeling around the penis for a sufficient "enough" depth. For some, that could be 5x4.5, and for others, 9x7.
Now, men who are insecure (or secure well hung macho-bacho men) will feel that 65% (45+15+5) of women think size is quite important. The insecure men might hear a completely honest woman from group B say, "7.5x5.5 is better(all else equal), but 5.5x4.5 will do just fine", and feel bad about it.
If men are secure, they might feel that 80% (45+35) of women dont care to a significant degree. Among the women who do care, some only need "6x5" to feel full enough anyway.
My numbers are HIGHLY debatable, but ASSUMING they are right, my conclusion is:
Even though size does clearly "matter" for the simple majority, a confident man will find that it only REALLY matters 20% of the time at MOST! This is how I feel personally.

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Sad that such important decisions about one's future are often made when maturity and perspective at a premium. Wonder how many men and women look back and realize that they let the perfect one get away because of something trivial and shallow? Far too many, I'm sure.
I'm glad that I'm not in the present dating world, I can tell you that.
Edited 4/4/2006 11:29 am ET by katmandoo2001
She felt like goldiecocks.....lol
It's funny but I never thought about size, before or after my DH. Not my former fiance's nor anyone elses. And the only reason I can think of that size wasn't a big issue for me was because I had figured out what really worked for me sexually long before I became sexually active with a man.
Penetration is a pleasure, of course, but not the singular pleasure it was made out to be. I think that's why so many young women are surprised and a little disappointed that it's not a toe-curling experience from day one. It's just not that simple.
Edited 4/5/2006 6:07 pm ET by katmandoo2001
tish wrote---"Everyone has a choice, either be happy with what you have OR don't be happy with it."
A guy's choice is limited to that if his penis size isn't changed. Since mainstream teaches it's impossible to change one's penis size, and most automatically then accept it as fact, reality indeed is for the vast majority of guys that they must either be happy or unhappy (or in-between). Proof that many guys would like to be bigger (even some that aren't much insecure about it)is evident in how well the fake penis enlargement pill industry is doing.
That so-called industry preys upon the weaknesses and insecurities of men and I've seen users on here pitching the same bullschweebie on the forums.
Because men don't want a larger penis, they want to feel desirable and feel like they can satisfy a woman in bed.
Reality shows, they're two entirely different things and it's a shame that a lot of guys don't know the difference.
cerryl wrote---"As a man, i have to say it's very silly for a man to be self conscious about it, since there's NOTHING YOU CAN DO about it."
I know the pills don't work because I'm a member of a forum that studies penis enlargement indepth. However, I also know your capitalised words are not correct. Despite what mainstream thinks, exercises do work, even if results are quite slow. And despite what mainstream thinks, it is not so risky to do exercises provided one is very knowledgeable in what one is doing. If one is not completely knowldegable, then yes, it is not safe. Many guys have gone through life, and many will continue to go through life, thinking there is nothing they can do about it, thinking that way for no other reason than that is what they were taught.
I appreciate your efforts, but what you're saying simply isn't true. I'm sure there are some quack doctors out there who may agree with your statement, but reality is reality:
Hanging weights from your penis is not going to allow more blood to enter your penis. I would like to see a picture of these so-called exercises being done, that would create much laughter.
And laughter will go a lot further for a guy to score a date than some penis that looks like yesterdays catch from the wharf.
But it's attitudes and posts like this deserve no forum. All that it serves is to prey on the insecurities of men and do nothing more than place the all-mighty buck into the pockets of some holistic quack who probably flunked out of medical school.
There's plenty a man can do about it and that's FORGET about it.
No, it's not based on MY OPINION. Your post is void of any semblance of medical fact.
Show me one credible source (Like NEJM) thats supports anything you're claiming and I'll eat my textual shoes.
Until then, you're doing what all the other spammers, phishers do. Making insubstantial claims in order to lure in the weak and insecure who equate penis size with the ability to please a partner.
Why? I have no idea
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