Penis Size Debate

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Penis Size Debate
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Fri, 03-10-2006 - 11:37pm

If others have seen my posts on penis size, completely ignore them because I often post when I am frustrated or temporarily insane.

Anyhow, the debate goes on and on, and reflecting on all the archives, it is the same story, but yet everyone can begin the debate all over, like me. Here is my take on it.

Does size matter? Depends. If yes, how much? Depends.

I took a rough survey using the 700 plus posts on the subject and I have come up with really rough numbers that classify 4 types of women. Now, women who dont really care about size because they dont really care too much about sex are not included. I am tempted to not include women who have only had less than 3 partners, but I figured that is too discriminating, although 80% of women now probably do have at least 3 partners, so.....

Anyhow, here is my take

35%(group A) Size doesnt matter in the slightest for all intensive purposes
45%(group B) They "prefer" big enough to feel completely full, but if not, no worries.
15%(group C) They NEED to feel quite full.
5% (group E) size queen (Need to be filled and a whole lot more!)

I dont want to get into semantics about G-spots, hot spots in the vagina, size of vagina, etc. Lets just say that being full means a very snug/tight feeling around the penis for a sufficient "enough" depth. For some, that could be 5x4.5, and for others, 9x7.

Now, men who are insecure (or secure well hung macho-bacho men) will feel that 65% (45+15+5) of women think size is quite important. The insecure men might hear a completely honest woman from group B say, "7.5x5.5 is better(all else equal), but 5.5x4.5 will do just fine", and feel bad about it.

If men are secure, they might feel that 80% (45+35) of women dont care to a significant degree. Among the women who do care, some only need "6x5" to feel full enough anyway.

My numbers are HIGHLY debatable, but ASSUMING they are right, my conclusion is:

Even though size does clearly "matter" for the simple majority, a confident man will find that it only REALLY matters 20% of the time at MOST! This is how I feel personally.

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Registered: 12-24-2005
Sat, 04-08-2006 - 2:03pm

I'm actually quite curious about what you're talking about, and that's why I asked for valid scientific proof. Having been heavily enmeshed in the world of alternative medicine and spirituality for decades now, I do realize, however, that valid scientific proof isn't always forthcoming, even when something does work, due to the fact that it's either very new and hasn't had a chance for scientific validation, it's too controversial and politically-charged for the establishment to go near it, or it's only worked for a small fraction of people who've tried it.


Seriously, if it's something that can be successful for a large segment of the male population, I would be very interested in finding out about it. I just haven't seen anything but claims. And claims without proof, or without even a description of the method(s) used, are nothing but empty words.


I am, however, glad that it's worked for you and improved your sex life.




Edited 4/8/2006 2:04 pm ET by mr_e_steubing
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Sat, 04-08-2006 - 2:15pm

thanks blondeguitarman. Your post was great.

~Haven't been around these parts in awhile so I wanted to give a "smaller" guy's perspective on this thread. Yes - there are indeed women out there for whom size is a BIG issue. Luckily they are in the minority~

I agree totally. Those women that think it is a central issue, are not the women for me anyways, so why do I care???? I am not judging these women, they just wouldnt be right for me.

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Registered: 04-23-2004
Sat, 04-08-2006 - 2:21pm

A guy such as yourself I would be with because of your attitude and your confidence.


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Sat, 04-08-2006 - 6:33pm

Tish, thanks for saying you don't think I'm a part of the penis enlargement for money people. I did appreciate that. I had my doubts anyone would even want to bother to say so, even if they didn't think I am, but you bothered and it counted with me. About pc, I think sometimes people who are always nice can come across as pc. Liberals also seem pc. I suppose it's because liberals tend to not believe in or recognise as valid any social class structuring, while republicans tend to create policy with class structuring in mind. Pc is a confusing term anyway. Perhaps mistakingly, but I do tend to think of you and kat, and perhaps some others, as probably being liberal.

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Sat, 04-08-2006 - 7:38pm
I have two sons who are in the present dating world, and it seems to be pretty cutthroat from my vantage point. And I used to think it was a meat market when I was dating! I agree that it appears to be much worse now.
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Sat, 04-08-2006 - 7:43pm
Liberal? I don't think anyone's accused me of that in a very long time. No, I'm more of a moderate.
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Sat, 04-08-2006 - 8:00pm

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Registered: 04-17-2003
Mon, 04-10-2006 - 3:34pm

I'll tell you two ways I know you're so-called hanging weight exercises are a waste of time:

There's no medical know-how or correlation to backup your claims, not from accredited source.

Second, Maxim, FHM and all those other 'guy' mags, this would make front page news for them for an entire year.

If you want to hang weights from your penis, please do so (But take a picture!) if that's what floats your boat. Don't claim it's going to ENLARGE anyone's penis, because it just isn't true.

Like I said, show me one accredited source and I'll eat my textual shoes.

Yeah, maybe there are CHOICES (Surgery, fat injections etc...) but they're not choices any SANE AND REASONABLE man would want to make.

Gee, which would I pick to play with: A guy with a smaller than average penis, or one that looks like yesterdays catch?

 

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Registered: 04-17-2003
Mon, 04-10-2006 - 3:39pm

I'm a tree hugging liberal democrat and damn proud of it!

And I know something that makes my penis larger: Seeing my wife in a thong.

 

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Registered: 04-17-2003
Mon, 04-10-2006 - 3:41pm

I don't know which makes less sense:

Hanging weights from your penis to make you a better lover or voting for George W Bush for President.

 

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