Penis Size Debate

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Registered: 08-14-2004
Penis Size Debate
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Fri, 03-10-2006 - 11:37pm

If others have seen my posts on penis size, completely ignore them because I often post when I am frustrated or temporarily insane.

Anyhow, the debate goes on and on, and reflecting on all the archives, it is the same story, but yet everyone can begin the debate all over, like me. Here is my take on it.

Does size matter? Depends. If yes, how much? Depends.

I took a rough survey using the 700 plus posts on the subject and I have come up with really rough numbers that classify 4 types of women. Now, women who dont really care about size because they dont really care too much about sex are not included. I am tempted to not include women who have only had less than 3 partners, but I figured that is too discriminating, although 80% of women now probably do have at least 3 partners, so.....

Anyhow, here is my take

35%(group A) Size doesnt matter in the slightest for all intensive purposes
45%(group B) They "prefer" big enough to feel completely full, but if not, no worries.
15%(group C) They NEED to feel quite full.
5% (group E) size queen (Need to be filled and a whole lot more!)

I dont want to get into semantics about G-spots, hot spots in the vagina, size of vagina, etc. Lets just say that being full means a very snug/tight feeling around the penis for a sufficient "enough" depth. For some, that could be 5x4.5, and for others, 9x7.

Now, men who are insecure (or secure well hung macho-bacho men) will feel that 65% (45+15+5) of women think size is quite important. The insecure men might hear a completely honest woman from group B say, "7.5x5.5 is better(all else equal), but 5.5x4.5 will do just fine", and feel bad about it.

If men are secure, they might feel that 80% (45+35) of women dont care to a significant degree. Among the women who do care, some only need "6x5" to feel full enough anyway.

My numbers are HIGHLY debatable, but ASSUMING they are right, my conclusion is:

Even though size does clearly "matter" for the simple majority, a confident man will find that it only REALLY matters 20% of the time at MOST! This is how I feel personally.

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Registered: 12-20-2004
Tue, 04-11-2006 - 9:29am
cerryl, I have read about what beenthere is talking about.. Its not about hanging weights from your manhood.. I saw it years ago, its called "Jelking"(sp) there is a website/forum somewhere where men talk just like we talk here. They do claim it works, but to what extent I have no idea. Jelking has been around for many many years.The way I look at it is this. If those Africans can stretch their necks to extreme lengths, or their lips and ears, is it so far fetched that somepeople stretch their penises?.
Im not advocating it, I`m fine with my size, more importantly my wife is fine with it.
Being above ave. in size I cant really relate to that insecutiy.. However, for some guys if they have 7" they need 9"...Even though the majority of women would run for the hills if a guy had a legit 9" (most women are not that deep so what good is the extra 2")... Do these guys need a penis that big so if they come across the 5% of women who need one that large they can satisfy them?..They only know the answer to that question.
As for liberal vs. conservative, we need less government in our lives , not more. This country was founded on the free enterprize system, thats what made this country great.. The more you give others what they need or want, the more you will have. Call that what you want, but everyone should be aware they are taking our freedoms away a little bit at a time, "for the good of the country"..very scary.
One of my clients who was 93 at the time told me, " you have no idea what freedoms you dont have (that were taken away long ago).. That is more true now for every generation that comes along.
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Registered: 03-28-2003
Tue, 04-11-2006 - 5:28pm

FWIW, Africans do not "stretch their necks". The Pa Dong Long Neck people create the appearance of a stretched neck by forcing the ribs downward as described here: http://www.djparadisetour.com/MaeHongSon/esecret.html. In other words, the head is not raised on a stretched neck but rather the shoulders are pushed downward.

As to the other stretching practices of tribal peoples, in nearly all cases it is only skin which is being stretched - ear lobes, lips, and so on. There are no examples (in the tribal practices) of stretching complex structures. If it were possible to do so, don't you think that these tribes would be overrun with men with incredibly long penises? How about stretched legs, so that the hunter can run faster? Stretched arms to enable longer spear throws? And so on...

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Registered: 07-05-2005
Tue, 04-11-2006 - 6:05pm

Just as one can be too open minded, one can have too much skepticism. I only recently came to believe natural penis enlargement might be possible (3 to 4 years ago). I thought it was impossible, or at least didn't seriously consider it, for afterall, it's what I had always heard.

I'm for one am skeptical there is a Supreme Being - God. However, I don't totally dismiss the possiblity. How can I? Even though it seems quite a wild notion to me that there is an all knowing being, that is perfect, and has always been here (no beginning, middle or end). In fact, there was a recent double blind study involving 1800 people that indicated prayer doesn't help with recovery. That those prayers were not being answered. I didn't like reading that study, for I do hope there is a God. To me, that study was a serious mark against the possibilty of a God, for the Bible teaches he will answer some of them. I remain hopeful though. I won't completely shut my mind.

Even if there isn't a God, perhaps there can still be an afterlife. A spirit world perhaps. Perhaps we are all spirits living out a test. That is another theory. There is so much I don't understand about our existence, how we can even be here at all, whether one believes in God or not. How can we exist from nothing? Yet we do, so there is something I'm not getting. Believing in God doesn't solve the missing piece of the puzzle, for how can a God exist from nothing? Or simply believing in just the spirit world, that we are all Gods in a way, doesn't solve the puzzle either.

I just don't understand how anyone can say something can't be so, or can't be done, when we are just mere human grabbling in the dark with a flashlight in our hand. How can one say there can't possibly be life on another planet, yet there are those that do. How can one say there can't be possibly be aliens from another planet, yet there are those that do. I've studied the ufo stuff off and on quite a bit, and I still don't know what to think. There is some compelling stuff, but upon deep investigation I've found some read reds at times that weren't being reported. So I know all so called credible stories are not so credible.

Bottom line to my rambling is that one should be open minded, and skeptical. Research indepth, and don't jump to conclusions. I know I'm gained. Can I can a lot? I don't know. You don't know either.

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Registered: 07-05-2005
Tue, 04-11-2006 - 6:11pm

I wrote " There is some compelling stuff, but upon deep investigation I've found some read reds at times that weren't being reported."

I meant "... I've found some red flags".

I wrote "I know I'm gained."

I meant "I know I've gained."

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Registered: 12-20-2004
Wed, 04-12-2006 - 9:34am
jackson, if there is more room from the shoulders to the chin, reguardless of how it was achieved, it was achieved. You are right bones in arms and legs dont stretch, but flesh may....
All I`m saying is that "jelking" has been around for many years, and there are people who claim it works for some people(themselves included) and they have no financial gain to say so....How much it works , I have no clue and could care less.Beenthere knows of the forum where average men do discuss their "gains" and thats all I know. I saw the site once out of curiosity, and it seemed legit. Ask him where it is and go there and decide for yourself....
Ive heard both good about it and bad...But I`m fine with my size, so it doesnt rally matter to me.
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Registered: 12-20-2004
Wed, 04-12-2006 - 9:45am
been, this may sound nutty, but I have a couple clients, both in their 80`s who were in Roswell, back when the crash supposedly happened. He was a sargent, and said when he got to the site, there were already 300 towns people there, and he helped put the bodies in the boxes... She ,at the time, served dinner to her then Colonel husband and other ranking officals who were in charge of the coverup.She heard everything...They both swear its a true story, and that other crashes around the world are true. They said now that they are in their 80`s whats the government going to do to them now...lol
(this is a second marriage for them both as their mates died, they were friends way back then)
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Registered: 07-05-2005
Wed, 04-12-2006 - 4:06pm
I've read several books on Roswell, and from those it seemed possible. One thing has been clear, and that is the government has covered up something. The files that the government were forced to release are so blotted out there isn't much to read. Well, it appears to me that something has very possibly been really figured in the recent book Body Snatchers in the Desert. It pretty horrible, but it doesn't involve space aliens, yet there were bodies at the site that could have been mistaken for space aliens. It's too much to explain here. It actually involves war crimes and a govenment would definitely cover it up. Look up about the book online if you want to. I would be interested in hearing what your clients think about the book, especially if they read it.

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