penis size question for the ladies?!?!?!

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Registered: 05-09-2005
penis size question for the ladies?!?!?!
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Fri, 05-13-2005 - 3:05am
I am a 20 year old college student-athlete. I take alot of pride in myself and everything I do. I am very good looking, smart, charming, and fun to be around. My problem is up until this year i didn't really care to have a girlfriend and now i feel that i should really growup and get one, but i was wondering if i am capable of landing a very attractive intelligent girlfriend because i have a somehwat smaller penis. It's 5.5 long and 5.5 around. I know i can woo the average girl, but i dont want to settle for average. I want a beautiful girlfriend who is witty and senisble, not just a bimbo. I want a woman that my family will be proud of. what do you think my chances are of finding that woman? please help!!!

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Registered: 01-07-2005
Fri, 05-13-2005 - 3:33am
IMO 5 1/2 inches is not small. and IMO what gets a girl is man's personality and how much "he's into her". PS: that's the way to keep the girl too.! good luck!
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Registered: 05-01-2003
Fri, 05-13-2005 - 6:16am
If I were young and beautiful and in the market for a man, the size of his penis would not be high on the list of priorities. It sounds to me, too, that your penis isn't particularly small, so don't worry about it. Elaine
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Registered: 05-27-2004
Fri, 05-13-2005 - 8:35am

If you honestly believe that the size of your penis (which is "average") has ANYTHING to do with the type of woman you can get, then you'd better wait a little longer, and grow up a little more before you unleash yourself on the female half of the world.

If you want to know the female opinion of penis size, then check out the 500+ posts in the archives that discuss the total UNimportance of a man's penis size. The penis is only one part of the "package". Women get interested in a man because of who he is, not what he looks like, and that's usually long before they find out the size of his penis. If a woman is interested in you, she'll be quite happy with whatever size penis you have, particularly if you know what to do with it, and everything else you have to give a woman pleasure.

If you want a woman you can bring home to Mom and Dad, then that's the kind of woman you need to look for. Good luck!

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Registered: 11-23-2004
Fri, 05-13-2005 - 9:08am
You should be more worried about how well you get along with a woman and how you make each other feel. The sex is wonderful too, and does come into play. IMHO no woman who won't be with you due to penis size, is NOT worth having! Seems to me you just want a prize possesion you can show off. Like green said, you need to step back and grow up!
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Registered: 03-08-2005
Fri, 05-13-2005 - 9:40am

Your penis size will have nothing to do with 'Finding that woman' (Not JUST a bimbo!?)

Unless of course, you walk around naked.

Dude, work on your smile and sense of humor. They're going to like you or dislike you long before they see your penis.

Unless of course, you walk around naked :)

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Registered: 04-23-2004
Fri, 05-13-2005 - 11:31am

Ditto on what everyone else said.


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Fri, 05-13-2005 - 12:15pm

I would THINK that an intelligent, attractive, witty and sensible woman would know better than to choose a man based on his penis size, don't you? And if one disqualifies you after taking your pants off, then you'll know that she wasn't quite so sensible after all. NEXT!

But it sounds like you're in the market for a show pony, not a GF. Do the next prospect a favor and look a the WHOLE package as well, not just the exterior. And don't dismiss her simply because she may not fit YOUR ideal requirements. If you wish to be more than a penis size to a woman, then you must allow her to be more than a pretty face and an IQ score.




Edited 5/13/2005 1:50 pm ET ET by katmandoo2001
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Registered: 05-27-2004
Fri, 05-13-2005 - 12:45pm
I can just see it......walking around with his wee willie hanging out, saying, "LOOK girls.....I'm just great, and I have THIS besides.....oh, no, not you, you're just average. I deserve better than you!"
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Registered: 04-11-2005
Fri, 05-13-2005 - 12:45pm
Honestly, my BF is no bigger than you are and I have NEVER been with anyone who is a more wonderful lover. He is kind and considerate and adventurous in bed, and he makes me feel like the sexiest woman alive. You know why that is? Because he cares about ME, the way I feel, what I think, how he can give me the most possible pleasure. And the feeling is mutual. He is not the most well-endowed man I have ever dated, but he is the BEST MAN with whom I have ever had the privilege of being...both in bed and out. And that makes him beautiful and irreplaceable to me. A man who treats a woman with the kind of respect my BF shows me is unbelievably sexy, regardless of how small or large he is "down there". And, to echo what everyone else said, my feelings about him were already certain before I ever even saw his penis. However, if you are just looking for a woman who can adorn your arm, it is quite possible that you will end up with one who is shallow enough to believe that your penis is too small.
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Registered: 05-22-2003
Fri, 05-13-2005 - 1:49pm

Awesome post, usa197.

The kind of thing we love at this forum.

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