penis size question for the ladies?!?!?!
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penis size question for the ladies?!?!?!
| Fri, 05-13-2005 - 3:05am |
I am a 20 year old college student-athlete. I take alot of pride in myself and everything I do. I am very good looking, smart, charming, and fun to be around. My problem is up until this year i didn't really care to have a girlfriend and now i feel that i should really growup and get one, but i was wondering if i am capable of landing a very attractive intelligent girlfriend because i have a somehwat smaller penis. It's 5.5 long and 5.5 around. I know i can woo the average girl, but i dont want to settle for average. I want a beautiful girlfriend who is witty and senisble, not just a bimbo. I want a woman that my family will be proud of. what do you think my chances are of finding that woman? please help!!!

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Edited 5/13/2005 2:19 pm ET ET by rain_dancer_iam
5.5 long and 5.5 around is NOT a somewhat smaller penis. The average white "european" penis is 5.3" long. So you're on the "a bit longer" side of average. And 5.5 around is not small either.
I think you're worrying about nothing. Besides, penis size has NOTHING to do with what kind of woman you can attract...but attitude and your personality have EVERYTHING to do with it.
40 years experience speaking here.
Hello there.. I have a different opinion on this issue than most who have responded to the young man. I am a 28 year old female, very experienced, I've seen many penises in all shapes and sizes, but none as small as the man I am dating currently. I love sex, I love the feel of a penis inside of me, any woman would agree that the feeling of penetration is next to heaven (or to ME better than chocolate!) I would be a lesbian, but men have what I want sexually... a PENIS.
With that said... I can't feel my partner penetrate me at all. He tries, but he's also a premature ejaculator, which makes it VERY difficult to have vaginal sex. I've dated him for over a year and I've given up trying to be satisfied sexually with this person. Sure, we waited a month before having sex and we were totally in love with eachother before we even had sex because he was the only person I've ever met who understood me and we wanted this relationship to work. I wanted to marry this man, and we have been trying so hard to make the sex work, but it doesn't. He admits his penis is small and he knows I am not satisfied, but he's satisfied because I allow him to penetrate me anally, because he thinks that's the only way I can feel anything. He tries to manually make me come with his hands, but (not to be a bitch) I can do that for myself at home, he doesn't like to go down.. which is also a problem. I prefer a bigger penis, maybe 6.5 and up, and I have never had a problem with others until now.
I am just letting the young man and everyone else know that a lot of women like to say that they don't care about penis size, but when they come across a penis that they can't feel, then maybe they were wrong.
There are two perspectives in your situation though. Maybe he feels that your vagina is too big. He may be satisfied, but he may want to achieve that vaginally, not just anally.
There ARE ways to deal with physical differences though, with positioning and angles, so if this guy is perfect in every other way, then you should be able to work it out IF you want to.
Sounds like his refusal to perform orally might be one reason for your dissatisfaction as well.
"There are two perspectives in your situation though. Maybe he feels that your vagina is too big. He may be satisfied, but he may want to achieve that vaginally, not just anally.
There ARE ways to deal with physical differences though, with positioning and angles, so if this guy is perfect in every other way, then you should be able to work it out IF you want to.
Sounds like his refusal to perform orally might be one reason for your dissatisfaction as well."
Oh, did I forget to mention.. my vagina is very small. Since I haven't had vaginal sex in about 6 months, I am sure it's shrunken down a bit. He says he loves how tight I am vaginally, but if you read my post closely, he likes it anally because he thinks that's the only way I can feel it. There are no positions or angles that we can reach since his penis is too small to go in. We HAVE TRIED.
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