Penis Size Remix
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Penis Size Remix
| Wed, 04-27-2005 - 11:05am |
I just read the Average Penis Size thread from a few days ago. There were quite a few posts I thought to be interesting. First, a reoccurring theme seemed to be that it is more important for a man to be good lover instead of being hung like a horse. My question to this is why do the two characteristics need to be independent? Wouldn't a man with a large penis have a natural advantage in becoming a good lover? Wouldn't women prefer the man with a larger penis if all other things were equal? “Hitting bottom” is supposed to be quite uncomfortable for women, but occasionally dealing with this seems better than working with the empty feeling of a small penis. I strongly agree that there are infinitely more important things than penis size when it comes to relationships, but it seems to be important for sex. Most women seem to dismiss that they might prefer the larger man if he was also a good lover. Secondly, there seemed to be a great deal of surprise that men and women might actually measure. Nearly all the guys in my dorm knew their size down to a quarter inches in college, and many girls I knew openly questioned and discussed various guys and their size. Even my wife (then fiancé) eagerly measured my length and girth when the opportunity arose. It may seem trite, but I think it is inaccurate to dismiss the importance of penis size as it relates to specifically to sex.

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Edited 4/27/2005 4:10 pm ET ET by rain_dancer_iam
How bout this, according to the wisdom of Mrs. Para,
"Size doesn't matter until the woman is uncomfortable with it."
When the size is big, for instance, it DOES matter that much more, just like for many women if it were too small as well, doesn't it?
Actually, I still like the Taoism (sp?) view on it all...VERY insightful. Maybe he'll chime in on this.
C H A R A C T E R
I know Kat...what I should have wrote was "...you mean a "small" thing like penis size talk can do that?" but it didn't hit as hard, so I left the obvious out) ;-)
Edited 4/27/2005 8:22 pm ET ET by rain_dancer_iam
Correction: SOME women enjoy that stretched, full feeling with penetration. I do not. It's just a little too close to the sensation of giving birth for me, which I do NOT associate with pleasure.
What your wife enjoys is individual to her and cannot be used to determine the sensation needs or desires for anyone else. Every woman, like every man, is unique in their preferences and needs.
Edited 4/27/2005 7:00 pm ET ET by katmandoo2001
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