Penis Size Remix

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Penis Size Remix
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Wed, 04-27-2005 - 11:05am
I just read the Average Penis Size thread from a few days ago. There were quite a few posts I thought to be interesting. First, a reoccurring theme seemed to be that it is more important for a man to be good lover instead of being hung like a horse. My question to this is why do the two characteristics need to be independent? Wouldn't a man with a large penis have a natural advantage in becoming a good lover? Wouldn't women prefer the man with a larger penis if all other things were equal? “Hitting bottom” is supposed to be quite uncomfortable for women, but occasionally dealing with this seems better than working with the empty feeling of a small penis. I strongly agree that there are infinitely more important things than penis size when it comes to relationships, but it seems to be important for sex. Most women seem to dismiss that they might prefer the larger man if he was also a good lover. Secondly, there seemed to be a great deal of surprise that men and women might actually measure. Nearly all the guys in my dorm knew their size down to a quarter inches in college, and many girls I knew openly questioned and discussed various guys and their size. Even my wife (then fiancé) eagerly measured my length and girth when the opportunity arose. It may seem trite, but I think it is inaccurate to dismiss the importance of penis size as it relates to specifically to sex.

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Avatar for katmandoo2001
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In reply to: alex78
Wed, 04-27-2005 - 4:05pm
I can tell ya...it's sure becoming a "sore subject" for me! LOL!
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Wed, 04-27-2005 - 4:09pm
...you mean a **small** thing like a penis can do that?


Edited 4/27/2005 4:10 pm ET ET by rain_dancer_iam
Imagination is more important than knowledge." (Albert Einstein )
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In reply to: alex78
Wed, 04-27-2005 - 4:39pm

How bout this, according to the wisdom of Mrs. Para,

"Size doesn't matter until the woman is uncomfortable with it."

When the size is big, for instance, it DOES matter that much more, just like for many women if it were too small as well, doesn't it?

Actually, I still like the Taoism (sp?) view on it all...VERY insightful. Maybe he'll chime in on this.

 

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Avatar for katmandoo2001
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In reply to: alex78
Wed, 04-27-2005 - 4:59pm
No. I mean "beating" a subject to death can!
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In reply to: alex78
Wed, 04-27-2005 - 5:06pm

I know Kat...what I should have wrote was "...you mean a "small" thing like penis size talk can do that?" but it didn't hit as hard, so I left the obvious out) ;-)




Edited 4/27/2005 8:22 pm ET ET by rain_dancer_iam
Imagination is more important than knowledge." (Albert Einstein )
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Wed, 04-27-2005 - 5:26pm
To expound on my original post, I think that any man should use his fingers and hands to stimulate a woman. As Katmandoo noted, that's where most of the nerve endings are. A man (well or lesser-endowed) would be remiss to not devote significant attention to the clitoris and g-spot. As she also noted, it takes something smaller and dexterous simply to hit the g-spot. But ANY man can and should give that attention. I think the fullness factor is what really puts things over the top after a man gives due-attention with oral and finger stimulation. I hate to give specifics, but my wife is small to average build and I have an average to above-average penis at 6 1/2 long x 6 inches around. After foreplay, I slide in with very little resistance and feel like I scarcely have anything to give her. We bring toys to bed that make my penis look like a little boy's, and her reaction to that fullness is much greater than anything I can provide. I know she prefers sex with me to any toy, but I really believe that filling the vagina provides a great deal of satisfaction for a woman compared to a lesser-filled vagina. All of that said, that’s really where I base my belief that penis size is a significant consideration for a woman’s pleasure during sex.
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Wed, 04-27-2005 - 5:53pm

Correction: SOME women enjoy that stretched, full feeling with penetration. I do not. It's just a little too close to the sensation of giving birth for me, which I do NOT associate with pleasure.

What your wife enjoys is individual to her and cannot be used to determine the sensation needs or desires for anyone else. Every woman, like every man, is unique in their preferences and needs.




Edited 4/27/2005 7:00 pm ET ET by katmandoo2001
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Wed, 04-27-2005 - 6:41pm
...makes you wonder about fisting! ;-)
Imagination is more important than knowledge." (Albert Einstein )
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Wed, 04-27-2005 - 6:45pm
Oh lord! Let's not go there.
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Wed, 04-27-2005 - 6:48pm
...or get a load of the size of some dildos....can I hear Dinosaur! ;-)
Imagination is more important than knowledge." (Albert Einstein )

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