Penis Size Remix

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Registered: 04-27-2005
Penis Size Remix
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Wed, 04-27-2005 - 11:05am
I just read the Average Penis Size thread from a few days ago. There were quite a few posts I thought to be interesting. First, a reoccurring theme seemed to be that it is more important for a man to be good lover instead of being hung like a horse. My question to this is why do the two characteristics need to be independent? Wouldn't a man with a large penis have a natural advantage in becoming a good lover? Wouldn't women prefer the man with a larger penis if all other things were equal? “Hitting bottom” is supposed to be quite uncomfortable for women, but occasionally dealing with this seems better than working with the empty feeling of a small penis. I strongly agree that there are infinitely more important things than penis size when it comes to relationships, but it seems to be important for sex. Most women seem to dismiss that they might prefer the larger man if he was also a good lover. Secondly, there seemed to be a great deal of surprise that men and women might actually measure. Nearly all the guys in my dorm knew their size down to a quarter inches in college, and many girls I knew openly questioned and discussed various guys and their size. Even my wife (then fiancé) eagerly measured my length and girth when the opportunity arose. It may seem trite, but I think it is inaccurate to dismiss the importance of penis size as it relates to specifically to sex.

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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: alex78
Mon, 05-02-2005 - 10:50am

Shawn, you chose to respond to my post, so why wouldn't I take your comments personally?

I do understand your point of view, however, when a poster gives a personal opinion, you'll find that no one will challenge it BECAUSE it is his or her opinion.

But when a poster, like Illiana and a couple of others, attempts to speak for all women or men, on this or any other topic, then it will be challenged and rightfully so.




Edited 5/2/2005 10:54 am ET ET by katmandoo2001
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Registered: 04-26-2005
In reply to: alex78
Tue, 05-03-2005 - 12:03pm
I took your advice and tried again. This time I sent a link to this website for an article about oral sex secrets (http://love.ivillage.com/lnssex/sexoral/0,,7jvvjt9b,00.html) beforehand. I didn't ask if she read, and she didn't bring it up that she had even seen my email, so I didn't ask about it. The next day I offered to gave her a massage. I spent a LONG time, with oils, and since she was menstruating (underwear had to stay on), she wasn't pushing to go "all the way". She must have read the article becasue by time I finished the massage, I got what I wanted! Holy Cow! I couldn't tell her enough of how good it felt and she seemed pleased. She also remarked her jaw didn't hurt as usual, so maybe I'm onto something!

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