penis tip?

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Registered: 09-25-2004
penis tip?
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Thu, 12-23-2004 - 10:56pm
i noticed that my SOs penis head is not bulged ( as I have read in many places). Few pictures I saw on internet all showed men with bulged penis head. My Sos penis is of average size and I dont feel odd at all . Does the head of penis generally have the bulge? My SO turns me on completely and is great in bed. Iam just wondering if it is normal not to have a bulged penis head. I dont see any discontinuity at the penis tip. It seems to be smooth getting sharper ( not bulging towards the tip). Any one has any comments on this? Do any other guy have like this? Do all men have that bulged penis head? Is it really abnormal if some one doesnt have so? Iam a bit worried. any commnets would be helpful.

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Registered: 04-23-2004
Fri, 12-24-2004 - 4:11pm

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Registered: 10-18-2001
Sun, 12-26-2004 - 4:55pm

>>But I thought both circumsized and uncircumsized men have top part of penis bulbed than the shaft.<<

They do. It's just that circumsized men have had the loose protective sheath of skin (the foreskin) cut away, permanently exposing the head. Uncircumsized men have the head but it is usually covered by the foreskin, particulary when it is not erect and soft. The foreskin will often slide back as the penis gets bigger and erect.

I think that this is a good reason for you to throw out that idea that you have about not looking at a partner's sexual anatomy scientifically. You are worried and concerned that he is abnormal because you don't know enough about normal male sexual equipment.

Tell you what; next time that he is erect and aroused, push the sheath of skin back over the shaft of his penis and have a look. It will slide/roll back on the shaft much like pantyhose or socks do as you push them down your legs. Put your thumb and fore-finger either side of his penis about 3/4" from the tip and slide gently back towards the base. The skin under your fingertips should move smoothly and uncover the tip and head of his penis. With most uncircumsized men the skin (the foreskin) will roll back over the head (the bulbous bit you talk about) and you will see that he has all the parts that you thought he might have. For a few uncircumsized men the foreskin will not retract over the head but that is not necessarily a problem.

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Registered: 12-21-2004
Sun, 12-26-2004 - 6:06pm
You have no need to worry about your guy. Sounds like he is just fine but you are lacking in knowledge. ASK him to show you everything about his penis. As a man i've spent the past 15 years with my wife figuring her out. I read bookand listened to other women on these message boards and just plain asked her if what I'm doing is working for her. I think to men the female sex organ is a mystery and it reqires study and guidance to know how to handle it correctly. I think the opposite is true for woman. All our equipment is out in the open so it must be easy to figure out. NOT TRUE.I had to show my wife she had no clue. Ask him to show you everything about.I'm sure he would be thrilled. Even ask him to masturbate then you'll know what he likes and does't like. Contrary to popular opinion we all don't like to be pulled up and down like you are trying to get varnish off a railing. Ask and learn
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Registered: 12-20-2004
Mon, 12-27-2004 - 6:10pm
Some men have a small head to their penis, some men have a large head....both are normal.
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Registered: 05-27-2004
Tue, 12-28-2004 - 12:08am

You are INDEED thinking too much. He is a human being, and ALL human beings have differences. All men have penises......some are big, some are small. Some are thick, some are thin. Some are dark colored, some are rosy pink. Some have larger heads, some have smaller heads. They are ALL perfectly ok.

Do you think all female vulvas look exactly alike? Would you like it if he said yours didn't look the same as his last g/f's? It doesn't, because we are all different.

You really NEED to look at him, and ask him questions....without being critical, and certainly without telling him he doesn't look like pictures you've seen. If you see 100 pictures, they will ALL be different, and you cannot compare one man to another, any more than you would want him to compare you to other women.

Being ill as a child does NOT affect the size and shape of a penis. Genetics is what determines it. Whatever "bulge" you're looking for isn't there...so what? It has nothing to do with the way it works, and IF it works, that's all you need to be concerned about. Also, the size, shape or configuration has NOTHING to do with fertility. The semen is produced in the testicles......not in the penis.

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Registered: 02-02-2004
Tue, 12-28-2004 - 12:20am
You're right. The conversation has me bulging, though. LOL

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