Penis!

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Registered: 12-27-2003
Penis!
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Fri, 07-01-2005 - 1:34pm

Hi, I've never posted on this board before, but I thought this was appropriate for this board.


Scientific studies seemed to have more objectivity in determining the average length of a man's penis.

 

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iVillage Member
Registered: 07-05-2005
In reply to: jman75
Sun, 07-10-2005 - 2:16pm
All the things you said matter to me. Size also matters to me---to be the ultimate lover in my opinion. To many women size does make some difference, as the stories you mention confirm.
iVillage Member
Registered: 07-05-2005
In reply to: jman75
Sun, 07-10-2005 - 2:19pm
That was to blond.
iVillage Member
Registered: 01-02-2005
In reply to: jman75
Sun, 07-10-2005 - 4:09pm

No, there was no reference to girth on the site.

Being older I have spent an extended period of time with a number of women. Yes, they have referred to girth but I've only heard one remark on length...she dated one guy so long he hit something & hurt everytime. Another was 3-1/2" and she said it didn't seem to matter.

Some were too polite to refer to past lovers.

I think some women simply don't care. Others may care if its too thin, too thick, too long, or very short.

The woman I knew that had probably had the MOST partners simply didn't care as long as the guy himself was tall & slim. She ended up marrying a very stocky chap...go figure. We do not always date & boink the same body style that we'd marry !

Big

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Registered: 12-24-2003
In reply to: jman75
Sun, 07-10-2005 - 4:21pm

I agree with almost everything you said.

Your admirable post is probably the reason you are the success you are. I have Kallmanns Syndrome, something you may come across often in your forum. We all have different ways to deal with the deck we've been dealt. You have your way of making up for it by being a good lover in all the other aspects, I have mine.

>>Let's take the ego point for guys. "I'm bigger so I'm more of a man." Is this why some of you guys here are tugging at your penis daily so it will be longer so you can FEEL like more of a man?<<

No, I want it thicker so she can grasp it more tightly. The tighter the better, the thicker the wetter.

>>And if your ego is stronger you will be a better lover?<<

Absolutely.

>>Maybe it has nothing to do with your bigger size? Maybe it's your bigger confidence that your partner is responding to. <<

Ok, maybe, but what's your point? If I'm more confident because I perceive myself as a better lover, even if I'm deluding myself, I am that better lover, no?

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-02-2005
In reply to: jman75
Sun, 07-10-2005 - 4:24pm

I don't think of 6-1/2 as long but I've had some complaints about discomfort and I've often had to settle for shorter strokes, less penetration. When I read about the 7-8-9" crowd I have to wonder what kind of experiences they are having.

If I'd a choice I'd pick average 5.3" and average thckness too (whatever that is) and let my loving & persistence be the attraction not the size of my Johnson.

Mr. Big

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-05-2005
In reply to: jman75
Sun, 07-10-2005 - 4:37pm
What you're referring to is non bone pressed average mean size-, measuring on top from pubic skin to tip of penis. Measurements are taken none bone pressed. The average for fatpads is approx. 1", and so the bone pressed measureent is approx. 6 1/4". Some of us like to consider the bone pressed measurement our true penis length- by pressing during sex it can mostly be used.
iVillage Member
Registered: 12-20-2004
In reply to: jman75
Sun, 07-10-2005 - 4:37pm
No you missed the point..9" wasnt comfortable for her ...so it wouldnt matter if it had been 9" with girth or not. You see many women just feel pressure and/ or pain when men reach "bottom"..You seem to think that all women are going to have wondrous orgasms just because a man is long enough to reach all the way back there...not so in most women..Even at 7" a man is easily long enough to reach the CDS area in many of the more shallow women and many women just do not like it..kinda shoots your length theory doesnt it? Do SOME women like this, uh huh, but again, they are in the minority.
Someone sold you a bill of goods in convincing you that length was a necessary factor with the majority of women as far as sexual fulfillment goes...So tug on young man, if it makes you feel better about yourself....
iVillage Member
Registered: 07-05-2005
In reply to: jman75
Sun, 07-10-2005 - 4:48pm
Women sold me on it. It does count somewhat. I know of many female discussion threads proving it. I'm working on girth too, which you are ignoring about me. But it must come naturally with length work first. Then I will concentrate on girth. Too much to explain. I'm tired of this. You folks have no idea the depth of study done on all this. Nothing was sold to me- no banners, no popups, no money chsrge. Assumptions are killing me. My wife wants more length and much more girth- remenmber that?
iVillage Member
Registered: 07-05-2005
In reply to: jman75
Sun, 07-10-2005 - 4:57pm
I understood your point. My point was it's quite curious the way she put that.
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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: jman75
Sun, 07-10-2005 - 4:58pm
I think YOUR wife sees things as they really are, blonde. She sees beyond the physical and maybe, when the love is real, the physical aspect of sex becomes much less important. I know that's the case within my marriage. If my DH lost his penis to cancer or became completely impotent, he knows I'm there for the long haul.

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