Penis!

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Penis!
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Fri, 07-01-2005 - 1:34pm

Hi, I've never posted on this board before, but I thought this was appropriate for this board.


Scientific studies seemed to have more objectivity in determining the average length of a man's penis.

 

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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: jman75
Tue, 07-05-2005 - 11:38am

Luckily, women aren't dependant on vaginal stimulation for arousal and orgasm and most understand that there are other ways to pleasure a man.

And it's also why it behooves ALL of us to learn to be better lovers overall, not dependant on just our genitals to give and receive pleasure.




Edited 7/5/2005 11:47 am ET ET by katmandoo2001
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In reply to: jman75
Tue, 07-05-2005 - 12:18pm

Hi katmandoo,

Your point is correct as a alternative to a mismatch, but humpdaddy is valid in his post because there are plenty of women who do desire the full effects a penis can provide. Not that it necessarily matters a lot to them, but the sex is of course even better with a good match for her. And this isn't even including size queens who will be quite unhappy with such a mismatch.

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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: jman75
Tue, 07-05-2005 - 3:06pm

Well, I don't know too many couples who ARE a perfect physical match though. And that's why I strongly believe in becoming proficient in all aspects of making love.

Also, since most women do not orgasm from penetration alone, and require direct clitoral stimulation to do so, then a man would still need to consider his manual abilities, yes, even during intercourse.

Unless a man or woman is prepared to reject someone they may have come to love, simply because their genitals don't match perfectly, then learning to adjust and accomodate should be expected.

Don't get me wrong...I love penetration, but it's simply not enough to satisfy me.




Edited 7/5/2005 3:15 pm ET ET by katmandoo2001
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Registered: 12-20-2004
In reply to: jman75
Tue, 07-05-2005 - 3:10pm
I really think it just depends on the individual..some women say they like girth, some like length, some say it doesnt matter. Some women get great pleasure when a man can reach her deepest areas..Some women say that it hurts when a man goes that deep. Some women say they get little or nothing from intercourse alone, some women crave it...Some have a very pleasurable "G" spot, some have no idea if they have one. Many women prefer receiving oral sex in place of penetration.
Were all different in our likes and dislikes...
Some women put love over size and/or fit..they say it doesnt matter to them, because they love their man.So they adjust......
Im thinking my wife and I are fortunate that we both found each other, we love each other AND we fit perfectly together sexually both in size preferences and techniques.(We both have had bigger, smaller, looser, tighter,shorter, longer, deeper,thinner,and shallower).
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In reply to: jman75
Tue, 07-05-2005 - 3:19pm
But really, Hump, how much of that "perfect fit" is perceived because of love? I think we all adjust at least some of our preferences out of deference to our loved one. I think that stronger emotions and the resulting bonds make a big difference in a sexual relationship.
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In reply to: jman75
Tue, 07-05-2005 - 3:20pm
I don't doubt that men have been more vocal about their preferences in the past, but it still doens't alter who I find undesirable.
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Registered: 08-20-2004
In reply to: jman75
Tue, 07-05-2005 - 3:22pm
Probably wouldn't convey the quite the message I'm looking for. Instead I could have on the front of the shirt "If size is a plus on your list..." and on the back have "You're off my list". :)
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Registered: 05-27-2004
In reply to: jman75
Tue, 07-05-2005 - 4:51pm

I don't "prefer" anything. I'm old fashioned, I like to get to know a man before I jump in bed with him. I like to get to know him WELL, and to LIKE him a lot before sex comes into it. At that point, I take what I get! When I say average, I mean within a range. No, I don't particularly want "wee willie winkie", nor do I want a horse.

How and where did I imply that bigger has any advantage over average? I don't look at it that way. No matter what the size, if they don't know what ELSE to do but cram it in there, they have a lot to learn about women.

As for "bigger" guys who might also have technique.....then they're on "a level playing field"....but any guy that thinks size alone is going to make them a good lover has a LOT to learn.

I don't base my feelings for a man on the size of his penis. I don't KNOW the size of his penis until the feelings are there. When it happens, if it happens, I only hope he knows what he's doing, and I'll accept and enjoy whatever he has to offer. Let's face it, if the feelings are there, they're there....and his penis size doesn't enter into it.

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Registered: 07-05-2005
In reply to: jman75
Tue, 07-05-2005 - 5:11pm

I explained in my post how what you said implies bigger is better. It's not just you, this example you gave is commonly said, by those that say bigger isn't better. It's curious why it's not directly said "I'll take average over big." Instead, it's said "I'll take average that knows how to use it over big that doesn't." What's that all about, what's the point in saying it that way?---it implies bigger is better. It shows that things aren't quite considered equal, and an advantage is felt necessary to add to the average size guy.

Let me try to explain it this way--- What if a woman has small breasts and she asks me if bigger breasts are better. Instead of giving a direct answer, I say "I'll take a woman with a good personality and small breasts over a woman with a bad personality and big breasts." Now how does that sound to you?

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In reply to: jman75
Tue, 07-05-2005 - 5:13pm

Yes, my post was quite exaggerated in saying I wouldn't know the size between a one inch or a


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