Perlexed....

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Registered: 01-16-2007
Perlexed....
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Tue, 01-16-2007 - 11:51am

PERPLEXED!

Okay, here's the story.... I'm a happily married woman. I am very much in love with my husband. He's a wonderful father, friend, confidant, and lover. My problem lies in the fact that I tend to get bored with sex. I enjoy sex with him,(he is very attentive and giving) but I feel like there has to be more excitement.

I have had more sexual experiences than him and have experienced group sex and threesomes in the past. In the past year I have had sex with my best friend and her husband 3 times. I do not want to push my husband to do things he not comfortable with. We talk about threesomes, but when it comes down to it he get's very nervous and uncomfortable.

I'm afraid that the more I mess around with them the less I'll want to do it at home and eventually it will lead to a problem. But, I get so frustrated. I would never want him to feel inferior. I in no way blame him. I just think that I'm wired in a more sexual way than he is and I'm generally more adventurous.

So, do I just keep satisfying my desires and hope that I can include him some day or do I stop and just try to be grateful for what I have?




Edited 1/16/2007 11:56 am ET by pompiere

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Registered: 01-16-2007
In reply to: pompiere
Wed, 01-17-2007 - 1:40pm

When I say thickness I mean 8" circumference guess I worded wrong

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