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| Thu, 04-17-2008 - 12:58pm |
I am happily married with 2 wonderful children. I would never cheat on my dh. However, yesterday a good guy friend of mine suggested that since we both were hot for each other but would never act on it that we'd explore the workd of phone sex. I never did that before and it was really hot. Anywho, I was so hot that as soon as I saw my dh lastnight afterwork I jumped him... omg.
So, now here's my concern. Is it cheating? I do feel a little guilty but it is really just intense flirting. I know that it gave my dh a crazy nigh in bed and he could barely catch his breath.

Welcome to the board, ekiss0627.
I think it's up to each couple to set the boundaries of their relationship. To determine if phone sex is cheating within your relationship, you might want to ask yourself some questions. Things like:
- How would you feel the tables were turned and your DH did this with another female?
- How would your DH feel about you doing this? Would the partner you chose make a difference?
- Would it be different if your DH was present while you did this? (As in he might thinks it's okay if he's there and part of the action vs. not okay if he's not involved.)
- Is it something that you're reluctant to tell your DH about because you think he might not approve?
If you're not sure how your DH would feel about it, you could ask him his feelings or present him with a scenario and see what his thoughts are.
I don't think whether anyone here thinks it's cheating or not really matters. What matters is what works or doesn't work within your own relationship.
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So, now here's my concern. Is it cheating?
Okay...to most people in a committed relationship...yes, it's cheating.
My answer is pretty much the same as everyone esle here.
When I think of phone sex - I think of two people 100's of miles apart and the chances of being together are remote at best.
RJJJ
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Hope to hear from you soon!