Phone sex??

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Registered: 08-14-2007
Phone sex??
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Tue, 08-14-2007 - 7:57am
Ok, I just started seeing a new guy and he seems increasingly interested in phone sex. I'm quite shy at the best of times but would like to give it a go....just not sure what to say or how to get it started. I don't want him to laugh (sure he wouldn't but the fear is there!) Any suggestions/tips??
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Registered: 03-31-2007
In reply to: debs2110
Tue, 08-14-2007 - 8:15am

Welcome to the board debs2110.

I think it can take a while to become comfortable with anything, and I'm sure your BF knows this is a new experience for you. Let him take the lead and try following it, or begin by just answering his questions perhaps with some ad lib. He'll love to hear what you're wearing; what you're not wearing; what you're thinking about; what you're doing with your hands; how you're sitting/laying; any thing you might have with you; or anything else you might be doing or thinking about doing.

IMO, having phone sex is a little bit like giving oral sex. It's for the audience (in this case your BF) to enjoy and get off on. Your enjoyment will come from hearing the excitement in his voice and/or breathing, imagining what he's doing while you're talking to him, gauging his reaction to what you're saying, etc. The less inhibited you are, the more you will get into it, the more he will react, and the more pleasure it will bring back to you.

As with anything else, practice will make it more comfortable for you, and each time you practice, you will get new ideas to include the next time you try.

Have fun with it, and let us know how it goes.



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Registered: 07-10-1999
In reply to: debs2110
Tue, 08-14-2007 - 6:05pm
I think most guys just want to hear about how you're getting horny and to hear you moan. You might also want to try cyber sex first to get some idea of what to expect without having to deal with some of the awkwardness of phone sex.