Phone Sex

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Registered: 05-18-2005
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Wed, 05-18-2005 - 11:43pm
I would like to be able to have phone sex w/ my bf when I'm out of town for work but dont even know where to start. I go out of town almost every month for 3-10 days and when I'm home we have sex almost every day. I realized, after finding out he has called phone sex girls, that it may be something we should try. He is pretty verbal when we are together but I am little tounge tied when it comes to dirty talk. What do I say? Any suggestions?
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Registered: 07-22-2004
In reply to: ocqt420
Thu, 05-19-2005 - 4:57pm

Hi ocqt!

Before I give you my own input, here's a VERY healthy list of IVillage articles that I myself think are pretty much on the mark:

How to Talk Sexy in Bed
http://magazines.ivillage.com/redbook/sex/great/articles/0,,284442_289167,00.html

Talk Dirty to Me
http://love.ivillage.com/lnssex/sextaboos/0,,drpatti_2zpq,00.html

The Good Girls' Guide to Talking Dirty
http://love.ivillage.com/lnssex/sextaboos/0,,9j7q,00.html

Personally, I am not one of those guys who exactly craves talk or conversation much at all during sex, not even during foreplay, but if there IS dirty talk, I'm one who prefers it be , not fake or over-dramatic or acted. The talk, IMO, is about losing control when really really wanting the partner, not about hoping that the right thing is said the right way when the craving isn't even there. Thats what makes Mrs. Para the tigress, which I like, rather than the Oscar winner, lol.

I think that would be one major difference to recognize that isn't mentioned as much. Otherwise, the articles should REALLY help, along with all the ideas from the members we have on this board.

Hope the replies will help. :)

 

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