Physical attraction vrs sexual attractio

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Registered: 11-09-2003
Physical attraction vrs sexual attractio
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Fri, 03-23-2007 - 12:59am
This is odd. I have been told by a guy that physically Im attractive to him and he likes me physically, Im pretty but sexually he is not attractive to me so he will never jhad sex with any lady(not just me of course) who does not know how to behave in bed, major turn off for him, much less he will sleep with a girl who is a virgin because they dont know anything about how to please a guy in bed and does not have any kind of initiative. That is what this guy told me, physically Im attractive and he likes me, but sexually, im not his type. That makes me feel so bad and sad. I dont understand. So how to have initiative and be more sexually attractive to a guy when the girl is not that experienced. ANy ideas?

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Registered: 03-25-2007
Sun, 03-25-2007 - 4:32pm

Don't sweat it at all. I'll bet this guy couldn't screw his way out of a wet paper bag. Teaching is one of the best parts of sex. The learning adventure can be very stimulating, very exciting. Sure there are some folks who just want to receive and do not fully partake in the act because they are A) Selfish or B) do not fully understand the joint effort is what makes it great. Then there are those who have not received the experience, but are willing participants regardless. This guy sounds awfully full of himself, he probably saved you froma huge disappointment.

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Sun, 03-25-2007 - 10:48pm
He told me that sex cannot be learned by reading magazines or watching TV, to have experience and be knowledgable in sex the only way to do that is to do it in real life, so he told me that how can I know and tell him things about sex if I have never done it. He told me in chatting that even just by the way we chatted about sex, he can easily knows that I dont have initiative and I dont turn him on in any way. so I was not his type, sexually speaking but he found me attractive. I guess what he likes is a girl to be very wild in bed that makes him crazy and who is not ashamed of behaving like a slut in bed, or behaving like a slut not only in bed but in public (I mean an example, like if he and she are in a disco or something that she is not ashamed or embarrased to rub him, if he wants to be rubbed or try new things with him in bed too. I assume he likes girl to have power in bed and not be ashamed at all, he wants a crazy lady in bed, like I said, to behave like a slut, even if the lady is not a slut. He even told me once that he gets really turn on by girls in high heels on bed.

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