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| Tue, 08-17-2004 - 2:39pm |
I live with my fiance and we have sex all the time. A couple months back, when he climaxed and expanded inside me, it was so big that my pubic bone pinched him and actually made him pee a blood clot the following morning. That had happened to him once before, but over the last couple months, it happens all the time in certain positions. After doing some research on the internet, I think that my problem is pubic bone displacement. Of course we know not to climax in those positions anymore, but is there anything that possibly the doctor or someone can do? It gets frustrating when you have to limit yourself. Please anyone reply if you have this problem or have any ideas on what can be done. Thank you! -Jessica

Leticia
I'm totally onside with Leticia's reply, and am very curious about her same questions to you too. I've actually suffered a very painful pinching pain during my most extreme orgasms every once in a while. The positions include both very deep cowgirl and doggy versions.
In fact, it wasn't during the thrusting that got me, but it was during those extremely tight gripping contractions that occur during orgasm-- the thrusting. We normally grind into our climaxes as opposed to thrusting, so the penetration is super deep during the O's.
Despite the pinching pain, and boy o BOY do those things sting!, I've NEVER had blood in my urine and the stings have gone away within half a day. Is this at all to what you were describing?
YES talk to the doctor, thats my opinion. Keep reading and posting right here, but I 'strongly' encourage you to combine your inquiry with these boards as well:
Sexual Health
http://messageboards.ivillage.com/iv-bhgensex
Ask Dr. Ruth
http://messageboards.ivillage.com/iv-rlruth
Please keep us posted if you discover anything. This is very interesting.
C h a r a c t e r
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Mr. Para
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He's the only person I've been with so I have no past experiences to compare this to. When he is inside me on some occasions, I can feel him up against that bone; however, when he seriously gets injured, I don't feel him hit it. Thinking back on when he got the clot, he felt the pinch and the sting, but nothing after that. I remember that he could not cum and the next morning when he went to the bathroom is when he had the clot. Not being able to cum was because of it. He had gone to the doctor after it happened with his ex and that's how he knew it was torn, after it happened with me, we watched it and followed what his doc. had said before. Everything turned out ok.
I feel bad if it is me hurting him, but there's nothing I can really do if it's my bone. If it's something with him, that has me worried because I have no idea what it could be. I am definately open to anything you guys can suggest or think up. Advise is always good. Thank you again for talking to me and I will keep you posted as much as possible. If you have more questions, please ask because it gets me thinking about possible solutions or incidents that might get us to where we need to be. Talk to you soon!
-Jessica
Leticia
Edited to add: The pinching sensation is more than likely the pain from the damage happening inside the penis and is not from pinching against your pubic bone.
I believe that he should book himself in to see a Doctor, and probably a specialist.
Edited 8/17/2004 7:13 pm ET ET by westridge2001
-Jessica
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C h a r a c t e r
above all else
Mr. Para
C H A R A C T E R
The constant in the situation is him. It happened before you came along. He needs to see an urologist, and find out what's going on. If something is torn, and not allowed to heal completely, he'll wind up with scar tissue, and real problems.
As an aside, some other results from the study. THey randomly samped injuries from intercourse that made it to the ER for both men and women. It turns out that men suffer the majority of "coital traumas" even though rapes were included in the study. In fact some guy tried to rape a woman and "Cracked/broke" his erection. How is that for swift justice?