Playing with a woman's hair during OS

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Registered: 01-29-2007
Playing with a woman's hair during OS
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Mon, 01-29-2007 - 8:47pm
Is that generally liked by girls, or do they find it distracting from what they're trying to do? I hear it's good to let the girl know you're enjoying it, is that a good way to let her know? Ladies, is that something you like to have done to you when you're down there?
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Registered: 11-07-2003
Mon, 01-29-2007 - 9:24pm

I don't really care what a guy does while I'm down there, as long as he doesn't try to hold my head down to get me to take him deeper into my mouth. I can't stand that.

I don't think I'd mind a guy playing with my hair, but I might take it to mean he's bored/I'm not pleasing him. *shrug*

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Registered: 12-12-2006
Mon, 01-29-2007 - 11:51pm
There are LOTS of ways to let someone know you're enjoying what they're doing....and if playing with their hair is YOUR thing....then do it. If they don't like it, they'll tell you.
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Registered: 11-22-2004
Tue, 01-30-2007 - 11:52am
It's an interesting thing. For some guys holding your head etc. is a major turn-on. Most women seem to hate it. I had a guy who would grab my head with both hands and push down really hard. He loved that and once I relaxed about it it was fine. Probably one of the nicest, most courteous people I ever met aside from that. Weird.
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Tue, 01-30-2007 - 5:23pm

It all depends on the woman.

I like for my DH to hold my hair out of the way.
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And I can tell by my DH's reactions that he's enjoying himself. He doesn't need to do anything for me to know that!

One thing I would think the majority of women DO NOT like is holding her head or forcing it down.

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Registered: 04-17-2003
Wed, 01-31-2007 - 10:20am

My DW likes her haired pulled at times, OS is one of those times. So I play with it, twirl it and tug it lightly as things go.

 

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Registered: 03-14-2006
Sat, 02-03-2007 - 3:37pm
I guess I wouldn't mind. Usually when we do OS, it's in the 69 position, so he's clearly busy himself.
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Registered: 01-29-2007
Mon, 02-05-2007 - 10:17pm
I wasn't talking about pulling necessarily, but I guess that works too for her I'll do it.