A Pleasant Surprise

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Registered: 07-04-2003
A Pleasant Surprise
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Fri, 11-18-2005 - 11:17pm
Two and a half years ago my husband brought his best friend to bed with us. It's been awesome. I never said yes. I couldn't have. It was against everything I knew but once the touching and the moaning began it has been awesome. They have been best friends since they were kids (30 years +). It seems so natural. It is so amazing. So hot. So fun. We live about 11 hours drive away so it is only a few times a year, but really that's perfect. It takes awhile for me to heal up after being with those two for a couple of days. I am one happy 46 year old. Been married over 20 years. Amazing.
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Registered: 04-23-2004
Sat, 11-19-2005 - 9:26pm

Glad to hear it has worked out well for you.


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Registered: 07-22-2004
Sat, 11-19-2005 - 10:09pm

With claw marks still in my back and sore muscles all over yet, I can testify that Mrs. Para is still all I can handle, LOL!

For you though, congrats on being able to enjoy yourself with that experience you had. Sounds like a great story to share on possibly the Fantasy board too:

http://messageboards.ivillage.com/iv-rlfantasy

 

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Registered: 07-04-2003
Thu, 12-01-2005 - 8:12pm

Hi Tish:

My husband and I hadn't really talked about this beforehand. My husband and this other person grew up together. They've been best friends since they were 7 years old. Years ago, when we had only been married a couple of years and we were routinely visiting this friend and his wife and two children, my husband once asked me what I thought about doing a couple swap thing or all four of us together. I didn't get it and thought it was way out there and that was the end of that. Fast forward may years later - the friend has been divorced for years and was breaking up with a live-in partner he had been with. He came to visit us and the second night of the visit I went to bed and the guys stayed up talking. Later my husband came to bed and fell asleep. Around 4 am my hubby and I got the warm fuzzies. I was ready and all of a sudden my husband stopped and said 'I'm going to go get ___". I was still mostly in sleep land and didn't respond except to continue snuggling up to him. Then he repeated that he was going to go get his friend- who was sleeping on our sofa bed. I remember feeling a little more awake and puzzled but didn't say anything. My hubby said it again. This time I said 'no', in the tone of you silly person. Once again he said he was going to go get him and he jumped up out of bed. Soon I heard him wispering to his friend in the living room. At that time I felt absolute terror!

I've always thought this friend is a great person and was very happy my husband had such a great friend. I've always been aware that this friend is a 'hunk' but I never paid much attention to that. I was a married women and he was my husbands best friend. My brain didn't begin to consider him in any way other than as my husband's best friend.

So . . . moments later my hubby comes back to bed and I peek over my shoulder and 'oh my god' there is best friend taking off his underwear, rubbing his crotch, and making deep yum sounds. I was so, so terrified. I did not know what to do. I thought of saying no. Stopping the whole thing, but I didn't. I was lying on my side, naked, facing my husband, clutching him and best friend slid into bed behind me. The first touch, as he stroked my hip and made more deep yum sounds, I felt my sense of reality being torn apart in an ecstatic way. I was pretty terrified through most of the experience, yet I also got the most high off sex I had been for a long time. It was awesome and I ended up feeling like it was such a natural extension of the relationship between the three of us.

We had a couple more awesome days before best friend had to go home. It was just wonderful. I became very comfortable with the whole thing very quickly.

After best friend left, my husband and I had a lot of fun talking about the experience. Over the last two years we've had some great times. In fact we got together over Thanksgiving and it was great. We have plans again for Christmas. My sex life has blossomed since. I was stuck in a bit of rut sexually. My hubby and I were doing ok but I was really not getting that into it. This experience has greatly improved our relationship, our sex, and I'm now actually interested in learning about my sexual self. I'm starting to masterbate for the first time ever - really.

a happy wife : )