please help

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-13-2007
please help
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Tue, 11-13-2007 - 10:30am

I need some advice please my bf and I have been together for a little over 4 months and we are planning to get married someday. He lost his job and now I have been working 12 hours now and I am not turned off by him,but I am just stressed having to pay rent, bills, and food, gas money and he likes to run my gas tank up. He has a interview today but does not ask the right questons. The interview is 30 mins away and the job is 15 mins away he took my car but it doesn't make since if the job is not on a bus line to go if he can't get there. He says he will ask when he gets there. I don't know what to do please help. I come home and don't feel like talking let alone have sex with him i need some advice.


iVillage Member
Registered: 12-12-2006
In reply to: ajsmom04
Tue, 11-13-2007 - 11:48am

Well, you've only been together for 4 months, and you already live together and are going to get married some day?

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-13-2007
In reply to: ajsmom04
Tue, 11-13-2007 - 12:21pm
iVillage Member
Registered: 12-12-2006
In reply to: ajsmom04
Tue, 11-13-2007 - 1:57pm

That information changes things......but you still have a problem.

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-31-2007
In reply to: ajsmom04
Tue, 11-13-2007 - 4:06pm
Welcome to the board, ajsmom04.



When there's a lot of pressure on one partner, it's easy to get stressed out. It sounds like once he finds a job, things will get back to normal. Does he change jobs frequently? If so, that might be something you want to discuss with him, as you don't want to go through this over and over.



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