Please help !!!

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Registered: 01-10-2004
Please help !!!
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Sun, 06-05-2005 - 3:54pm
My boyfriend wants me to try oral on him. The reason I haven't yet is I always gagged on my ex. The bigger issue is that my b/f is not circumcised, I've never been with a guy that wasen't. Am I to be more careful with his member ? Will it feel weird in my mouth ? Is there certain tecniques I should know before trying to do this for him ? Any help so I don't mess this up would be great, thanks people !
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Sun, 06-05-2005 - 4:01pm

Should be no different doing oral on this BF than the last.....other than pushing the foreskin down first, if it doesn't retract on it's own upon erection. But ask him how HE manipulates his foreskin when masturbating and what feels best to him. He's the expert here.

IF you're a gagger, then inform him of that first and then concentrate all your efforts on the head and use a well-lubed hand to move up and down the shaft.

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Registered: 04-23-2004
Sun, 06-05-2005 - 4:10pm

Here is a past thread on giving oral to a guy not circumcised.


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Registered: 06-01-2005
Sun, 06-05-2005 - 4:41pm
My husband isn't circumsized and he thinks I'm a master at oral. I don't do anything spectacular but I never push or pull on his foreskin. I slowly lick around the top of his penis, and take just a little at a time in my mouth. When he is erected his skin goes back on it's own. He likes mostly for just the tip of his penis to be stimulated. I'm very soft and gentle until his skin goes back and then I may or may not play a little harder. I had been with other men who weren't circumsized so it was a little weird at first to feel the extra skin at the tip but once it goes back when he's erected, you won't know the difference.

 

 

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Registered: 07-22-2004
Sun, 06-05-2005 - 6:17pm

Hi angel!

Those are great links Tish provided. Here's a link that some have found helpful, including gagging issues:

Going Down Further
http://members.tripod.com/midniterambler2002-ivil/goingdownfurther/index.html

I wouldn't think that the circumcision would really be any different for either of you, but keep communicating with him, even along the way, just to be sure that you are doing what is actually effective for him, just like he'd communicate with you regarding oral or manual on you.

 

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