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| Tue, 11-30-2004 - 6:38pm |
Hello.,., IM sorry this is going to sound weird do most but i have a question and most don't like to call doctors over these things so small so if anyone can help me please Email me at cloud0fpink@aol.com heres my question lastnight my boyfriend and i were getting ready to.,. and when i went to put on the condom i put it on inside out it was a heated moment and it was our last but he messed around with it trying to pull it down and then we turned it the right side and put it on and proceeded on well this morning when i woke up i felt something is wrong and have been feeling something is wrong its like in the pit of my stomach and just cant let it go but dose anyone know if anything can happen like prego? anything in my situation IM really not sure IM sorry if this is confusing but its the only way i could find to word it thanks so much
very confused.,.,

A bit confusing but are you saying you had sex last night and now you're not feeling
Tish is, as usual, right right right. Furthermore, please oh for heaven's sake PLEASE don't think that the possibility of pregnancy is an issue to discuss with your doctor. NO health or sex question should be too uncomfortable to discuss with your very own private doctor. If you ever have questions about your physiology, we're more than happy to answer what we can here, but for anyone reading this, please trust your doctors.
Your description of your stomach hurting is still a bit vague, but some women suffer from pain resulting in the cervix being bumped, perhaps you'd benefit from analyzing that possibility. Other than that, I cannot think of what sexual activity, according to your description thus far, could actually cause any pain there other than over exerting your stomach muscles during sex or something. Maybe others have an idea or two also.
Hope you find any replies helpful. Think about asking your doc for questions too, okay?
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The feeling in the pit of your stomach? That's the feeling I get with an attack of stress/nerves. It is often followed by diahorrea (sp?) if I'm really stressed. If you've woken up worrying about pregnancy, it could explain the stomach pain.
FYI, pregnancy symptoms like morning sickness don't occur until about 5-6 weeks after conception. Usually, the very first symptom of pregnancy is a late period.
Provided you didn't put any holes in the condom while you were sorting out which way it was meant to go on then you will be fine. Bear in mind that if his penis had been leaking pre-cum as you were putting the condom on then maybe he could have got some on the outside of the condom while it was inside-out and it may have transferred some of that to your vagina.
The chances are very small that you might be pregnant. Very, very small. And there is no way that you would have any feelings or signs of being pregnant at this early stage. That feeling in your stomach is either gas or fear!
But to be on the safe side, you should see your Doctor about this and maybe you should get the emergency contraceptive pill. Talk to your Doctor and they will be able to decide what to do. But you must do it soon, in the next two days to be safe.
What you're trying to explain is that you put the condom on inside out, and when you realized you couldn't unroll it....you reversed it. Now you're afraid that some of his pre-ejaculate was on the outside at that point, and you've gotten pregnant.
The chances of that are VERY small. What you're feeling in the pit of your stomach is fear, and stress. Even if you were impregnated last nite (highly unlikely) you wouldn't know it today, or tomorrow, or until you missed a period. You don't FEEL a pregnancy for several weeks.
If it would ease your mind, then quickly get to your doctor, and get the "morning after" pills. You have to do it within 72 hours, or it does no good. While you're talking to the doctor, discuss getting on the pill, or some other form of birth control, and you won't have to worry about something like this ever again. Female birth control is a LOT more reliable than condoms.