Please Please Help Me!!!!!!

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Registered: 04-09-2007
Please Please Help Me!!!!!!
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Mon, 04-09-2007 - 8:13am

Hi Everyone, I'm new on the message boards and i have quite an embarressing question.

I have never had an orgasm - EVER. I masturbate using my fingers and i usually end up turned on and breathing hard but never any further. This frustrates me so much. I'd love to feel an orgasm. i have tried lying in different positions but it still doesn't help. Vibrators and such are out of the question - i live with a lot of people!!! I usually get turned on quite easily but i can only go so far. I dont know how to fix it - so if you have any tips they would be greatly recieved.

Thanks so much, Lexie x

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Registered: 03-31-2007
Tue, 04-10-2007 - 8:10am

I posted for Bronco to come and clue us in on his solo habits with the massager, so check back to see if he has any secrets to share.

My DH likes a vibe on the underside of his penis, right around where the glans are, so the shower massage feels good for him there too. He does like the feel of a vibe, but it doesn't work for him as effectively as a hand (LOL) -- so it's sort of like an appetizer! My DH doesn't really find it overly stimulating to have his balls played with (I guess he's a git 'er done kind of guy!), but in a past relationship, my BF enjoyed the feeling of the massager at the very base of his penis, or under his balls too.

Also, I know that I can use the massager from a distance or up close ... for the guys that I've known, only up close works. A hard stream of water from a distance is painful for them -- but some guys might be into that too ?!?



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Registered: 08-16-2006
Tue, 04-10-2007 - 9:47am
Why of course, who could refuse a offer like that! The use of the shower actually became my favorite solo place more out of convenience than any other reason. Perfect place to hide in plain sight, and easy clean up. The massage showerhead came into play after seeing a Better Sex DVD. My next shower I decided to try it, after some adjusting the spray, I found the pulsating one to be the best feeling, so I settle into my fantasy and began. The showerhead provided a lot more sensations, around the “boy’s” and inner thighs! I also found that there were great sensations around my rectum. You can vary angles and locations and it feels like hundreds of little hands all over that particular area, the sensations are great. I don’t use the most powerful setting, as it is too much and actually can hurt, however the pulsating spray can be wonderful!
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Tue, 04-10-2007 - 10:52am
Thanks Bronco -- I knew we could count on you ;-)


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Registered: 08-16-2006
Tue, 04-10-2007 - 11:18am
Anytime! Love the siggy ;)
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