What would you do if you found out your friends husband was cheating on her.....she JUST found out she was pregnant, they've been trying to get pregnant for close to 3 years. I'm sure she has NO clue, and that she wouldn't believe me if I told her........SO.....what would you do??????
How do you know for a fact that he's cheating? Me, personally, I wouldn't say anything. That's not entirely true. It would all depend on how good of friends they are. Knowing me, if we were all good friends, I would probably say something to him. But if not, then it's not
If he's a real man, he'll end it once she finds out they're having a baby.
If he was a real man he wouldn't be having an affair at all.
Anyway, I would tell my friend what I thought was true at the risk of our friendship. I would want my friends to tell me instead of lying to me and pretending everything is okay. I would be more hurt by them knowing and not telling me.
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:( I would probably get an ulcer worrying about her ... but I don't know if I could tell her or not.
I used to think I would want to know if my mate was cheating on me. But now, I'm not so sure I would want to know.
The best thing you can do is to stay out of other people's marriages.
Personally I would not say a word.
My attitude is different.
If he's a real man, he'll end it once she finds out they're having a baby.
If he was a real man he wouldn't be having an affair at all.
Anyway, I would tell my friend what I thought was true at the risk of our friendship. I would want my friends to tell me instead of lying to me and pretending everything is okay. I would be more hurt by them knowing and not telling me.
I think it all depends on how close you are to the friend.
If it's just somone you see on occassion, then it's not your place.
But if this is someone who is in your life everyday, speaking from my own experience,
they will feel betrayed if they find out you knew and never said anything.
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