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Pleasing the man
| Wed, 05-31-2006 - 2:58pm |
I'm a 52 yr old man who gets turned on by pleasing my partners. I find need to use Viagra to get erect combined with my mental arousal (e.g. my partner loving what I'm doing and what she is doing).
Most of my experiences with my partner have been switching off .. first I "do" her and then she in turn focuses on my pleasure.
I find that not as arousing as when she is turned on so my preference is that she does me at the same time I'm doing her otherwise I usually don't get hard.
Two questions:
1. When you have sex with your man, do you take turns or do it simultaneously (mainly).
2. Do you get "lazy" on pleasing your man if he is easily aroused, like if all it takes a BJ to get him going then you don't try different/new things?
Mark

We do it both ways. If we have oral only nights, then we take turns, as it greatly arouses my DH to give me pleasure. So, when it's HIS turn, he's already very aroused.
But we enjoy pleasing one another simultaneously and individually. To do the same things every time though, becomes routine and boring. We both try to keep things interesting. Variety is the spice of life after all.