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| Fri, 07-16-2004 - 2:04am |
Well, two questions here
1) when i masturbate its really actually very strange, i use both my hands and wrap up a blanket and press down and rub, so it hits my clit, but i read that people use one finger and rub it in circles, i find that just painful and irratating to the skin is there something wrong? i cnt touch it on the skin normal i need layers of stuff. Does anyone else experience this problem? How else do you all do it?
2) Also fingering myself doesnt make me orgasm just hit a area that gets erect when i press on it and liquid comes out is this normal? Ive heard it was my g-spot but the liquid comes with no orgasm or orgasmic feeling.~~~ any answers to my questions and they will be greatly appreciated thanx!
1) when i masturbate its really actually very strange, i use both my hands and wrap up a blanket and press down and rub, so it hits my clit, but i read that people use one finger and rub it in circles, i find that just painful and irratating to the skin is there something wrong? i cnt touch it on the skin normal i need layers of stuff. Does anyone else experience this problem? How else do you all do it?
2) Also fingering myself doesnt make me orgasm just hit a area that gets erect when i press on it and liquid comes out is this normal? Ive heard it was my g-spot but the liquid comes with no orgasm or orgasmic feeling.~~~ any answers to my questions and they will be greatly appreciated thanx!

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I think the liquid is normal. If the area is too sensitive for a lubricated finger you need to talk it over with your doctor. I know this is a tough subject to bring up but believe me they can handle it and you need to know what you need to do.
Hope my technique works for you. Best wishes.
P.S. WATCH OUT FOR FINGER NAILS (FILE THEM TO MAKE SURE THEY ARE NOT SHARP).
Edited 7/16/2004 1:42 pm ET ET by txguy2004
If you're ejaculating, which is possible, ejaculation is NOT an orgasm, and it can happen with or without orgasm. Either that, or you're pushing on your bladder, and causing it to leak. What you said was confusing...usually "g" spot stimulation (INSIDE your vagina) will cause ejaculation, but it doesn't get "erect". Are you referring to your clitoris, which can and DOES become erect during arousal. Your urethra is right next to the clitoris, and possibly you're just irritating it and causing it to leak.
In any case, masturbation, just like partner sex, is done for pleasure, NOT for goals, and if you enjoy what you're doing, then that's what works for you. There are many women who masturbate in the same way. If it works, then enjoy it.
Nope, not afraid to "touch" the subject at all.
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