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Pleasuring her
| Sun, 07-29-2007 - 11:59pm |
Recently i was able to give my girlfriend a different sexual experience than she had felt before. She thought it might be her g-spot but with further exploration and my knowledge of it i don’t think that was it. We were in the missionary position but she was lying on the bed and i was standing on the side. i had wrapped my arm around her waist and lifter a little as we were having sex. Her legs were elevated. Do you think this was the g-spot? Also i feel kind of worried that i may be inadequate for pleasuring that area as for as penis size goes. We tried a couple positions that are suppose to stimulate the g-spot more but i guess i wasn’t going deep enough, she told me she normally liked it deeper except in those positions i cant give her that. I a smaller guy, only 5-7 but i think im average in penis length about 5 1/2 to 6 inches but she seems to really like it when i can get as deep as i can. I thought most of the stimulation in the vagina was in the first 3 inches or so. I only wish i could go deeper for her since she seems to like it. What do i do. I want to be all she needs and blow her mind away.

You're talking about intercourse, and most women get their "mind blown away" during foreplay, as much as, if not more than intercourse. That's why so many people say that size doesn't matter. Women enjoy intercourse, but a woman's real sexual organ is her clitoris, NOT her vagina.....and there's really not much feeling inside it except at the opening, and/or if you hit her cervix. Some women like that, some don't. 80% of women do not have orgasms from intercourse alone....it takes clitoral stimulation, either from you, by herself, or from the position you're using, like Woman on Top....That's the best way to find her "g" spot with your penis.
If you want to find her "g" spot, look for it with your fingers. If you really want to "blow her mind".....find the "g" spot with your fingers, at the same time that you're stimulating her clitoris orally.
If you want to know more about a woman's body, and how to really give her pleasure, check out www.the-clitoris.com
Welcome to the board tkdt23.
Some women do not react to g-spot stimulation, and others have to "realize" what it is they are feeling. Since her g-spot can be reached with a finger, then your size shouldn't be an issue in reaching it. Position does a lot for both finding the g-spot and going deep enough to hit her cervix. Doggy position or WOT are both good positions for deep penetration.
As for her g-spot, having her elevated as you described is usually a good position for that. One that I enjoy is laying on my back with DH on his side, and our legs scissored. This also provides complete exposure for all types of stimulation during intercourse.
She will feel like she needs to pee if she is close to experiencing a g-spot orgasm. Since we spend most of our life fighting the urge to pee (holding it in) until we are on the toilet, it's very difficult to allow yourself to go with that feeling. There is a lot of fluid and it does feel like pee, but it's NOT pee. When she feels that urge, encourage her to push out instead of trying to pull in. Be sure you have protection under you as it can completely soak your bedding.
Have fun experimenting and keep us posted. We all love updates!
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