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| Tue, 06-07-2005 - 9:41am |
Another one from the Oprah show...
She has aired a couple of segments about pole dancing. According to her shows there are now classes and home videos available which teach pole dancing.
What do you all think?... do you have a pole in your bedroom? would you consider taking a class and/or installing a pole? Guys, would you like it if your partner did?
Personally, I'm not sure if I would be able to stop laughing long enough to make it hot.

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I didn't really watch the show attentively, but wasn't its' basis about women who needed to get in touch with their sexual side? Didn't they get makeovers as well?
For me, DH tells me I'm naturally sexy. He says it's built-into the way I carry myself...tee hee No need for poles to express my sensuality. ;-)
Edited 6/7/2005 9:57 am ET ET by rain_dancer_iam
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I saw that segment yesterday. I think it's great if a woman wants to take the class for her health and to make herself feel good about her sexuality, it can only benefit both her and her partner.
However, I still couldn't help but think...."HERE we go again. Once again, it's being left up to the woman to wear something sexy, do something different or learn something new to keep things spicy in the bedroom." WHEN is it the man's time to be proactive? Gee, where is the show to teach men how to do something new for their partner?
Edited 6/7/2005 11:36 am ET ET by katmandoo2001
Oh yeah....like it's ever been hard to "get a man" using your sexuality!! LOL! I stopped reading Cosmo at 18 because it was so one-sided and gave conflicting messages. It only served to make me feel pressured to do more than be myself. I have no problem giving, that's never been a problem....I just happen to like getting, too! LOL!
For once though, I would love to turn on the TV and see a show, hosted by a man, showing men how to be better lovers and partners and encouraging them to take the initiative once in a while. Think that will ever happen?
Edited 6/7/2005 11:55 am ET ET by katmandoo2001
I beg to differ. I am a guy and I initiate things quite often (more than half the time). I have done two strip teases for my DW. Also from time to time, I will put on something special for her. Not all guys have to be prompted, sometimes we do the prompting.
CH
No....not any sooner than we'll see two hetero men kissing. ;-)
We most likely won't see a show like that due to the fact that most women find men sexually and sensually attractive just being themselves....no need for props and/or exaggerated sensuality.
Ditto on the magazines.
Yes, that's true, Chahn. But have you taken a class to learn to striptease like a professional? LOL!
Some men, like yourself WILL do something creative or different on their own. But generally speaking, the onus seems to be on women to keep things spicy in the bedroom and that was my point.
Sure, I think we respond to men as they are naturally but hey, I still appreciate extra effort and a nice surprise as much as the next guy does!
And my DH always gets an "A" for effort! I always appreciate when my DH does more than show up in black socks and a smile! LOL!
I just wish men got as much encouragement to DO more, as women seem to.
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