POLL: Do you do facials?

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POLL: Do you do facials?
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Mon, 08-23-2004 - 3:44pm
POLL: Do you do facials?

Not in a million years. The thought is gross and really undignified.

If a little doesn't make it into mouth and gets on face, 'll live.

Once in a great while a full-on facial is OK, just b/c my partner likes them.

Expect to 'em fairly regularly - totally comfy with the idea.

They're central to our lovemaking and that is typ. how cum(s).

You will be able to change your vote.




Edited 8/23/2004 4:57 pm ET ET by cityguy666

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Mon, 08-23-2004 - 11:02pm

OMG You da man!



Sharon

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Mon, 08-23-2004 - 11:54pm
Easy there chief! ;-) I'm just tellin' ya ... puh-leeese don't hold it against me. Dat wouldn't be right! Peace,

D.

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Tue, 08-24-2004 - 12:31am
Oh yeah.
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Tue, 08-24-2004 - 12:46am
We have done it a few times. Once some cum got in my eyes and they stung and were bloodshot for hours. We are more careful about that now. I am totally comfortable about it, but my bf seems a little uneasy about kissing me afterward.
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Tue, 08-24-2004 - 10:43am
I may be missing the message you are trying to inbed in your sarcasm, so let me see if I got this right: You're saying that men who like to give facials do so because their closet mysogynists who want to show they're dominance over women by demeaning them through a facial? Is that what you are insinuating? I can't say for sure if that is a common motivation behind facials but I'm pretty sure that you can't really say either. Given that uncertainty, I think you should use more discretion before accusing people of that. Here is an alternate hypothesis, from off the top of my head: Men in this culture are often conditioned to expect women to feel at least slightly disgusted by men's genitals and fluids. There is a pervasive stereotype that women just don't like sex as mch as men. When a woman allows r encourages a man to ejaculate on her face, she is giving visible evidence that she likes sex, likes his penis, finds him sexy, and enjoys his semen. Perhaps it isn't an act mostly about control and dominance, but rather it signifies intimacy and acceptance. Just a thought.

"You should try a girl that likes intercourse sometime, just for something different than squirting on their face. You may like it. lol" - I find it ammusing you chose this forum to suggest that only victorian style vanilla sex is acceptable.

In a previous post you also said that men who like to give facials get it from watching too much porn. I think that you are confusing causation with correlation here. I think that porn attempts to cater to the fantasies of the customers, not the other way around. Porn doesn't always do a great job mind you. lol. Also, porn never shows internal ejaculations because, like city council meetings, they just don't make good TV. I think that city council meetings are great if you're a part of it, really exciting, but it's not the same if you're just watching it. In porn, in order to reach an artstic (perhaps not the word I am looking for, but neither is literary) climax, you have to demonstrate, well, a climax. I think that is one of the reasons why porn actress' orgasms are always so over the top.

JMHO

-phat

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Tue, 08-24-2004 - 11:46am
LOL Don’t get you shorts in a bunch there phat.

Sharon

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Tue, 08-24-2004 - 11:56am
AFAIK we ain't the same person lol. I didn't mean to tee you off with my earlier posting. I _am_ totally sensitive to, and respect, women. Never thought for a second about dominant and submissive roles ... but it seems to really make the whole thing mundane when you describe it as, "you like girls that let you squirt on their face" -- don't think that's a fair comment.

Peace.

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Tue, 08-24-2004 - 12:22pm
>>See you can always tell when you hit a little too close to home or strike a nerve because then *someone* feels the incredible urge to write a book going on and on and on with a defense justification. Emphasis on “justification”. No need to do that for my benefit. You like girls that let you squirt on their face. I like guys that show sensitivity and respect for women and have no egomaniacal need to even consider or think in terms of dominate/submissive roles.<<

I read your statements and found them to be a bit combative as well. Whether or not you intended to bait people, I don't know. If you weren't looking for an argument, perhaps next time you could simply state that it isn't something you enjoy or would tolerate and leave it at that. Including snap judgments about men and women who enjoy an act that you don't was probably a mistake ;o) I have not seen one man here say they would do it to a woman who didn't want to, I would call that sensitive and respectful. I wasn't in the mood for writing a novel, so is this shorty essay OK? ;o)

Leticia

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Tue, 08-24-2004 - 12:23pm
for the women that like facials -- what do you like about it? does the dominant/submissive aspect play into you liking it? is there anything you do to your man that is similar or reciprocal (i.e. come on his face)?
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Tue, 08-24-2004 - 12:39pm
>>for the women that like facials -- what do you like about it? does the dominant/submissive aspect play into you liking it? is there anything you do to your man that is similar or reciprocal (i.e. come on his face)?<<

I do like the submissive aspect of it, but that's not all. I like watching him ejaculate, whether it be on my face, breasts, tummy, etc. I like the warmth of it and the feel of it as it starts running down my face, neck etc. I like hearing his moans as he watches me enjoy it, and I like hearing when he tells me how I look with his cum on me. If my hair is up he will take it down before he cums, and he tends to touch my hair alot while he ejaculates. It is a very erotic act to me, but it also feels very intimate.

Leticia

Edited to add, yes we do reciprical acts. I will kneel over DH while he lays on his back and gives me oral to orgasm.


Edited 8/24/2004 12:40 pm ET ET by yarn_lover