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| Wed, 12-15-2004 - 5:29pm |
Would you have sex with someone you just met (meaning on the first date/ or day you two met)?
Answer YES or NO and WHY...

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No. Sex requires a deep emotional connection for me. I don't think I could get that connection on the day I met someone.
Choose your friends by their character and your socks by their color. Choosing your socks by their character makes no sense and choosing your friends by their color is unthinkable.
I've never had sex on the first date. But I always dated in hopes of finding the potential of a relationship, and I think if you sleep with someone on the first date, you really have no idea what eachother's intentions are, or if he's just looking for sex, etc.
But I don't think there's a certain timeframe for waiting, I think you just know when you're ready. I've been with my bf for only 2 weeks now, but we've gotten together 6 or 7 times in those 2 weeks, and we actually just had sex for the 1st time last night (awesome!). So yes, 2 weeks is not very long to know someone, but we're both very open and know what we're looking for, and have spent a lot of time together in those 2 weeks.
Would you have sex with someone you just met (meaning on the first date/ or day you two met)?
IN my younger days (back before steam), I did that whenever I could. But I found things to be sometimes very empty. Now that I am older (approaching ancient) I wuoldn't do that. The sex is better when there is that emotional commitment.
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NO because...
1.) You don't know about their sexual past. If they've had multiple partners infected with hiv or std's, there definately no way you'd know. I wouldn't want to take those risks.
2.) I personally think sex evolves into your relationship. When you care about the person, you want to be with them that way. That feeling is way more powerful and important than feeling a little lust. That's the way I feel.
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