Poll......... please respond.

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Registered: 02-14-2004
Poll......... please respond.
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Wed, 12-15-2004 - 5:29pm

Would you have sex with someone you just met (meaning on the first date/ or day you two met)?

Answer YES or NO and WHY...

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iVillage Member
Registered: 12-16-2004
Thu, 12-16-2004 - 5:07pm
Well I have to answer yes because that is actually what happened when I met my bf. We had sex on the first night we met. Which I hate to say, but it happens. I am glad that I met him though because we have a great relationship, he treats me wonderful, and we moved in together. I could't have gotten any luckier.
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Registered: 04-01-2003
Thu, 12-16-2004 - 8:52pm

I did it a few times in my younger (unmarried) days.

Would I do it now? Well, assuming I was single again, I would have to say it would depend. There is no yes or no to me for that. I don't think I would make it a habit of going out to bars and picking up men just to have sex, but I cannot absolutely say that I would never do it. Of course, nowadays, I would insist on condom use and I would make sure I was using reliable BC (or, if I were suddenly single again, I would most likely get a tubal). But I have several friends who are older than me -now in their 50s and early 60s- and there have been times in the past 10 years or so that they did it and didn't regret it at all. If I were single, I can see that there might be a time when I would meet someone interesting and alluring and want to have sex with them, without worrying about 'where it will lead'.

One thing I've learned is never to say never.

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