Popularity of Fellatio
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Popularity of Fellatio
| Thu, 04-22-2004 - 7:19pm |
I'm wondering about fellatio to completion, and in particular, how much do men really desire it?
We seem to get a lot of threads here by women on the subject (swallow or not, how to do it) and I'm wondering just how

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My wife and I are in the same boat as you and your husband. We too will use fellatio as a "pre-launch warm-up". Occassionally she finishes me with her mouth, and while it IS really fun and different, it's not our usual or even preferred method of finishing...as a rule, I like to orgasm in her vagina or occassionally anally (special occassions).
Peace.
Scott.
PS. Oral is never a reciprocal thing with us. Often in one go-round, only one of us gets oral - and that's fine with us.
"Why, sometimes I've believed as many as six impossible things before breakfast."
Lewis Carroll
Another problem we have with oral is that we like to have a lot of body contact and kiss. This is why she isn't much interested in oral for her anymore. She loves lying entwined side-by-side and me doing digital and prefers me on top for intercourse because of all the close body contact and kissing.
taoist.
Until now, I thought I was the only one who took forever to cum from fellatio. When it happens, DW gets a real charge from making me buck, jump, scream and groan. She says it gives her a huge sense of power ... I know it makes me weak and helpless.
However, because it takes a long time, its a major workout for her. For us, fellatio is like the olive in a martini ... its not the main course, but sure adds pep to the drink.
We both tend to prefer the closeness of intercourse, often preceded by several oral orgasms for her (I, too, get a kick out of making her buck, jump, scream and groan).
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CL-Yasmin1967
May I have the serenity to accept what I cannot change,
the courage to change the things I
We use fellatio as a warm up to the main event probably 50% of the time. Sometimes if I haven't cum after my partner has had a couple of orgasms from intercourse or if I'm taking longer than usual she'll fellate me to finish me off. Intercourse is seen as the main course for us as well.
Only rarely will my partner fellate me to orgasm before we have had intercourse. As yasmin pointed out, intercourse probably won't happen after that - or at least it won't happen for about 10 or 20 minutes after that until I can get another erection. Mind you, more fellatio can help me get another erection then too. We do that every so often too. Or do a 69 while waiting for me to recover.
How long does it take me to orgasm via fellatio? Depends a lot of the circumstances, but normally I'll take a good 10 or 15 minutes but my partner can speed that up considerably by varying her technique. Sometimes after having had intercourse it might only take a minute or two as I am close to orgasm already.
Leticia
We rarely use oral stimulation as foreplay though. Not sure why. I think it's mainly because it's such an effective means of orgasm for both of us, that it likely wouldn't be just be an appetizer, it would be the whole meal. LOL!
I'm just adding in DH's comments.
CL-Yasmin1967
May I have the serenity to accept what I cannot change,
the courage to change the things I
For me its good to finsh in her mouth but its not my biggest fantcy if its happend ok if not still ok
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