Porn movies as educational tools...

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Porn movies as educational tools...
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Wed, 06-22-2005 - 6:50pm

Ever learn something or been inspired to try something new from a porn movie?

If so, what? (Technique, foreplay idea, scenario idea, position?)

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Wed, 06-22-2005 - 7:20pm
No. Porn is usually unrealistic. It is edited, practiced, staged ... I don't rely on any porn to reflect anything remotely similar to real life.


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Registered: 10-18-2001
Wed, 06-22-2005 - 10:13pm
Not really. As said, 99% of porn is so unrealistic that you'd be mad to try and imitate what happens on the screen. Having said that, I know that my partner got an idea for a BJ technique from a porn movie one night. We tend to use it once in a blue moon (pun intended) for variety.
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Wed, 06-22-2005 - 10:28pm

Yes, namely positions and using various furniture in the house as support or balance. Also 'breast sex' since when I was first married I'd never even heard of or seen such a thing until some movie. Then I tried it for DH one night...lol. Some scenerios too, although adapted somewhat.

Probably a few other things too that escape my mind right now.

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Thu, 06-23-2005 - 7:55am
What is breast sex?
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Thu, 06-23-2005 - 8:43am
"breast sex" is where he straddles her chest, she pushes them together around his shaft and he slides back and forth in the cleavage. It usually takes some lube/saliva to be slick enough. If she's flexible enough she can get her mouth to the head of his penis on the "in-stroke".
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Thu, 06-23-2005 - 8:57am

I think it'd be beneficial for things, just like Tally pointed out. As SO many around have already indicated, "porn provides ideas" if anything, right? ;)

Movies for fantasy only, that kind of porn can be learned from too in a way, IMHO. For some couples, that actually proves pretty darn useful to learn about what be appealing to the opposite gender, fantasy-wise anyway.

I guess this would be considered different than porn, but for the sake of it, Mrs. Para and I DID learn some tips/tricks from our Kama Sutra video, and that actually does include nudity in it. Probably doesn't count as "porn" to many out there, but it still shows in detail the different ideas and all regarding sex.

 

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Fri, 06-24-2005 - 1:05am

I posted this on a different forum, but thought I'd re-post it here seeing as the title is appropriate:

I call it, "Saw it in porn, tried it... and it works!":

I never understood why they did this in some of the hardcore porn I've watched, but I was just floored when I tried it and it worked wonders!!

Ok, you do what is always done before penetration, the foreplay, the teasing, yada, yada, yada.

-- Fast forward to penetration --

Making sure everything is nice and lubed, you start putting the head in slowly. When the head is completely inside, stop and take it back out -completely- slowly. Now, put it back in slowly, but stop once your dick slips a little past the depth of the first stroke.

Now slide it back out completely and repeat, getting deeper and deeper every time and removing your dick completely out of her vagina.

When I tried it the first time my girl was soaked by the time we got down to the hard banging. So soaked her vagina made that slurping sound everytime I went back in.

We're not really sure why this happens, probably something about her vagina wanting more. Someone in the other board I posted this to said we were stimulating her Bartholin's glands - two glands located slightly below and to the left and right of the opening of the vagina - which produce lubrication. I'm also probably sliding in and out of the g-spot, since my strokes are more extreme.

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Fri, 06-24-2005 - 6:04pm
Okay ideas...nurse, school girl...other role playing ideas like that, my bf picks up on new positions sometimes also...but the key to watching porn or learning from porn is to know that THOSE GIRLS AREN"T ALWAYS ENJOYING IT. I'm not saying all of them, but you can tell when they are faking it or not...it just drives me crazy when guys "learn from porn" and believe its just that easy to please a woman!
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Fri, 06-24-2005 - 6:53pm

>>We're not really sure why this happens, probably something about her vagina wanting more. <<

I would say that the explanation is more simple than that. What you're doing is an extension of foreplay and you're teasing her. She is anticipating the great feeling of penetration and you tease her by just entering and withdrawing with shallow strokes. It's the same as if she was giving you a BJ but instead of taking you straight into her mouth, she just teased you by licking and sucking the tip, pretending she was going to take you into her mouth. You'd get really hard and turn-on by that. She's the same with the intercourse. The anticipation and teasing turns her on and she gets really aroused and wet, and by the time you do hit bottom and penetrate her fully she's so aroused that it feels better than normal.