Porn Virgin Looking for Advice

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Registered: 11-15-2008
Porn Virgin Looking for Advice
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Tue, 04-16-2013 - 2:13pm

Hi All! I hope I am posting this in the right place.  

I've never seen a porn.  For the last 6 years, I've been in a great relationship, where I have felt comfortable exploring sexually with my husband.  Lately, I've been fantasizing about watching porn with him.  However, I have no idea how to do it.  We’ve talked about it, and he is onboard, obviously.  Do you just tell him, hey let’s go watch a movie in bed together? Also, since I’ve never seen one before, does anyone have an girl friendly first-timer porn recommendations?

Thanks in advance for any advise!

 

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Registered: 06-09-2013
Sun, 06-09-2013 - 2:59pm
you can watch xx(double x)movies with him in starting just to boost him up,because these movies have sex scenes with good story.may be next time he will bring good porn for you..
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Registered: 04-06-2012
Thu, 04-25-2013 - 2:02pm
I know what you mean about some of it being a total turn off. You can find porn that is more geared to women's preferences. Let us know how he likes it :)
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Registered: 11-15-2008
Mon, 04-22-2013 - 1:39pm

I've been trying to research it online, some things just seem so....yucky? I'm not a prude by any stretch of the imagination.  Something’s just seem like a total turn off.  I think I'd do better with girls on girl, or girl with guy.  I'd prefer sensual, so that is what I've been searching for.  

He most certainly would find it erotic if I took the lead, and asked him to come in to the bedroom, that is part of my plan.  We'll have Friday night to ourselves, so I'm hoping to have something pinned down before then!  

Thank you for your advice, I appreciate it!

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-06-2012
Thu, 04-18-2013 - 1:35pm
I agree that a drink or two can make the experience more enjoyable. Some of the plots are so awful!
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Registered: 04-06-2012
Thu, 04-18-2013 - 1:33pm

Porn can be a lot of fun, if you are both in the mood for it!  I think you should start doing some research online, there are so many different varieties out there.  You should make a list of what you think would turn you on, and what would be a turn off.  Would you want to see girl on girl action, or guy on guy, more than just a twosome, etc.?  Would different positions be erotic or nasty to you?  Do you want it to be sensual or hard core?  Look at the descriptions, see if you can find clips online and go from there. 

Would he find it erotic if you take the lead, get it going on the TV, put something sexy on and invite him into the bedroom?  I know mine would!

 

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Registered: 01-04-2007
Wed, 04-17-2013 - 5:55pm

I guess you have kids so the bedroom is the most logical/safe.  You may want to wait till you are both a little frisky and have had a drink or two.  And say less watch some movies.  You want want to check out the Candida Royalle's films.  They are more women friendly with a little plot and you can buy them on Amazon.  Nothing really hard core like anal.  Eyes of Desire and One Size Fits All have gotten good reviews.  Remember these are not academy award films.  Finally, someone suggested to set a timer and when it goes off you have to perform the sexual act being done in the film.