porn vs strip clubs?

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Registered: 12-31-1969
porn vs strip clubs?
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Wed, 11-10-2004 - 3:38pm
There have been many posts about women (mainly) that don't like their boyfriends to watch porn. Do they feel the same way about strip clubs, or are strip clubs viewed differently than porn?

I personally don't care if my bf does either, but then again he doesn't do either one very often. Plus I have watched porn with him, and went to the strip club with him before.

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Registered: 04-23-2004
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Wed, 11-10-2004 - 4:20pm
No problem with me either way, porn or strip clubs.

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Registered: 10-18-2003
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Wed, 11-10-2004 - 5:32pm
My view on porn and strip clubs is this (and I got this from bf) ... as long as *I* reap the benefits of the excitement/arousal/enjoyment he gets from that, who am I to complain? In other words, if bf watches some porn, gets excited and then turns to me with that excitement and shares it with me, im a happy camper.


Choose your friends by their character and your socks by their color.  Choosing your socks by their character makes no sense and choosing your friends by their color is unthinkable.

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Registered: 11-11-2004
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Thu, 11-11-2004 - 10:13am
you have to like them.guys do not like us gals to not like them or not be ok with them watching and gong there.i go alng and watch them lap dance and i let these gals do it to me i dont like to.you get trashed if you dont.
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Thu, 11-11-2004 - 2:50pm
I don't think that you "have" to like them. You don't "have" to do anything that you don't feel comfortable doing. And no one should trash you for it. You shouldn't hang around with people that are going to trash you or disrespect you for not like strips clubs or if you don't want to get a lap dance, especially if you don't want to.

I personally like to watch porn by myself or with my bf. He goes to strip clubs occasionally with his friends, and I went with him once. I wanted to go though just to see what it was like. But my bf would never make him get a lap dance if I didn't want to get one.

Why do you spend time with people that make you do things that you don't want?

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Registered: 10-18-2003
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Thu, 11-11-2004 - 6:39pm
I think you need to find some new guys to associate with.


Choose your friends by their character and your socks by their color.  Choosing your socks by their character makes no sense and choosing your friends by their color is unthinkable.

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Registered: 10-26-2004
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Thu, 11-11-2004 - 10:04pm
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