I haven't been in a strip "club" to see male dancers, but I have been to events where a male "review" show comes through, like the Chippendale's. I've also been to strip clubs where women dance.
Honestly, from what I've seen, the women tend to be much more out of control. Men know if they touch or go wild, they get bounced, but the review shows geared toward women, it seems the men want them to get all riled up. The men tend to dance out into the crowd, and welcome being touched.
That's not to say that a woman would necessarily let that dancer lead him to a back room as easily, but I can't really speak for the odds of that happening more in a men's club either. I guess if the club has a reputation of that sort of thing happening, then some men might be there just for that purpose, which would make the odds slightly higher just based on that.
I hope you get the chance to go to a strip club with DH. I've done this on several occasions and they have all been exciting... what follows back at the hotel is even more exciting! ;-)
I do too, I have done a strip show for him myself and it was great fun. I just don't think I will be able to get him to one so easily these days. He is so worried that someone might see him there, even hundreds of miles from where we live. (his business takes him
While I've never done this, perhaps hiring a stripper to come to your hotel room. A friend of mine did this for her DH in Vegas and she said it was very erotic for all concerned. After the stripper left, she said they had the best sex ever.
Not a bad idea. We have pretty great sex already- I am more curious to watch what men find exciting about places like that.
Dh has expressed an interest in watching me get lap dance. It just sounds like fun. I want to go to one of those Gentlemen Clubs where they are a little more upscale.
That's the only kind that we've been to. Yes, it's amazing getting a dance, especially if the dancer / club lets your hands roam. What a great feeling, especially looking over at DH watching you enjoy yourself. That's why I also like seeing him get a dance.... and then the stripper and my hands travel in similar locations on him. One time we both had dances at the same time, sitting next to each other, both of us having very beautiful, fun, and uninhibited dancers.
I forgot to mention... watching other COUPLES in the clubs is also quite exciting. There's such a variety of them. Some (especially the women) can come in very bashful, but after a bit of time they loosen up. It's also exciting watching their body language and the whispers that happen between the man and woman, both watching, pointing, and whispering about the women in the club. VERY exciting!
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No, not right there in public.
There are websites where fans of CFNM (clothes female naked male) discuss such issues.
I haven't been in a strip "club" to see male dancers, but I have been to events where a male "review" show comes through, like the Chippendale's. I've also been to strip clubs where women dance.
Honestly, from what I've seen, the women tend to be much more out of control. Men know if they touch or go wild, they get bounced, but the review shows geared toward women, it seems the men want them to get all riled up. The men tend to dance out into the crowd, and welcome being touched.
That's not to say that a woman would necessarily let that dancer lead him to a back room as easily, but I can't really speak for the odds of that happening more in a men's club either. I guess if the club has a reputation of that sort of thing happening, then some men might be there just for that purpose, which would make the odds slightly higher just based on that.
I hope you get the chance to go to a strip club with DH. I've done this on several occasions and they have all been exciting... what follows back at the hotel is even more exciting! ;-)
Anne
Not a bad idea. We have pretty great sex already- I am more curious to watch what men find exciting about places like that.
Dh has expressed an interest in watching me get lap dance. It just sounds like fun. I want to go to one of those Gentlemen Clubs where they are a little more upscale.
I forgot to mention... watching other COUPLES in the clubs is also quite exciting. There's such a variety of them. Some (especially the women) can come in very bashful, but after a bit of time they loosen up. It's also exciting watching their body language and the whispers that happen between the man and woman, both watching, pointing, and whispering about the women in the club. VERY exciting!
Anne
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