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Registered: 06-06-2005
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Sun, 07-10-2005 - 3:03pm
my man loves to go into the 69 when im giving him head, he ways it slows things down and he loves having my whole ass right in his face, but to be honest, i dont really like it all that much, the mechanichs of it just arent that good, i feel giving oral is much better one on one and for me, i love to watch when he is spoiling me with his tongue ide love some other thoughts on this

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Registered: 05-29-2005
In reply to: kristin_202
Sun, 07-10-2005 - 4:27pm

one word........compromise

so you guys can both enjoy doing it. on some nights you can do it your way and on other nights do it the way he wants to do it!or you guys can have oral sex your way and his way all in one night that is if you guys like to do oral sex before and after intercours.

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Registered: 04-23-2004
In reply to: kristin_202
Sun, 07-10-2005 - 4:44pm
Very easy solution, as Shybutsexy said, compromise.

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Registered: 07-09-2005
In reply to: kristin_202
Sun, 07-10-2005 - 8:18pm
I am the same way. My ex used to love 69, but I would much rather either concentrate on what he's doing or concentrate on what I'm doing. Also, I didn't feel comfortable in that position physically, either.
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Registered: 04-23-2004
In reply to: kristin_202
Sun, 07-10-2005 - 8:53pm

Dh and I both rather one on one but we do 69 on occasion just for something different.


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Registered: 05-27-2004
In reply to: kristin_202
Mon, 07-11-2005 - 12:28am
I'm with you. It's fun for a few minutes, but it's very difficult to concentrate on two things at once. I have no problem with the "position" per se, but I can't concentrate on what I'm doing to him, because I'm enjoying what he's doing to me!
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Registered: 10-13-2004
In reply to: kristin_202
Mon, 07-11-2005 - 5:16am

>>but I can't concentrate on what I'm doing to him, because I'm enjoying what he's doing to me<<

LOL, I'm the opposite. I can't enjoy receiving because I'm concentrating on giving.

Anyway, ditto the 5 minute only thing. I find 69s quite overrated and would prefer to take turns.

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Registered: 07-01-2005
In reply to: kristin_202
Mon, 07-11-2005 - 10:10am
I like doing 69, we do it as a warm up, try it with him on top
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Registered: 04-23-2004
In reply to: kristin_202
Mon, 07-11-2005 - 10:41am
We've done it with me on top, him on top, side by side and it's just not our thing.

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Registered: 01-02-2005
In reply to: kristin_202
Mon, 07-11-2005 - 11:01am

agree with you. She is 46, I am 57. I do her then she does me by hand or mouth. we have tried 69 but prefer to separate the "O"s in time. I like her butt on the corner of the mattress, her legs over the foot & the side of the bed. She can prop herself up on pillows to watch if she wants but that is her choice...she has tried both. I kneel on the carpetted floor. Occasionally I just kneel on the bed and tongue her from the side...this allows easy touching with both my hands.

When she does me she likes two positions...she sits on the bed or lies on her side and I stand beside the bed. Or she has me lie on my back and she puts my legs in her armpit, lies at an angle to me, and leans over me to take me into her mouth.

Our agreement is that I will always warn her of my impending "O", she takes me out of her mouth & finishes me by hand.

In keeping the O's separate in time, we each get to enjoy watching, sensations, fulfillment...without having to also think of the other at the same time.

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Registered: 06-15-2005
In reply to: kristin_202
Mon, 07-11-2005 - 11:54am

I love 69 but my girl isn't a big fan either. We don't do it often, but when we do she usually stops giving my oral after about 5 mintues because she can't take it anymore. She just lays there grabbing my legs and moaning a lot until I finish her off.

Afterwards she tells me she can almost never give me oral at the same time because she just can't focus on satisfying me while I'm giving her good head. I just usually finish myself afterwards while she watches.

jerz

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