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position and pains
| Fri, 09-14-2007 - 5:22am |
I HAVE A QUESTION I AM A 21 YEAR OLD MALE AM ABOUT 8 1/2 9INCH I HAVE A GIRLFRIEND AND WHEN I AM DOING SOME POSITIONS MOSTLY DOGGY STYLE SHE ALWAYS TELL ME TO STOP FOR A WHILE BECAUSE IT HURTS SOMETIMES BUT MOST OF THE TIME I ONLY HALF WAY IN BUT SHE WILL START GO GET INTO IT IN I TRY TO GO DEEP SHE SAYS IT FEEL GOOD TO HER BUT IT HURT SOMETIME AND THE BIG THING IS SHE CANT GO FOR A LONG TIME AND I LIKE TO GO FOR A HOUR AND A HALF OR MORE AND MOST OF THE TIME IM LEFT WITHOUT A NUT OR JUST ONE

Where does it hurt her?
It sounds like you're bumping her cervix. Vagina's varying in length, just as penises do, so even if you are only half way in, it could still cause her a problem, especially in doggy position. There are positions that don't provide for as deep penetration, which she may find more comfortable. While she may like the feel of you deep, and it might be pleasurable at times, bumping of the cervix can be painful, especially if repeated over and over.
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I agree with Tish and Misty on this one. You have a very large member. And it's best to go slow, use LOTS of foreplay. And since there is pain you may want to try positions with shallower penetration. Maybe like spooning or woman on top, that way she can control the depth. IC is very pleasureable but when it's pain that can be a
I'm having the same situation with my current boyfriend.
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Thanks Cherron! =)
Not what I wanted to hear but... lol
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