Position issues 2

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Registered: 09-22-2004
Position issues 2
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Tue, 12-20-2005 - 4:40pm
I am fairly new to the sex thing. Believe it or not I waited til 24 to start having sex (and i'm a guy...lol). I also am trying to get my gf to be on top but it seems we have troubles "getting in" again there. Is she supposed to put it into herself and lower onto it or am I supposed to guide it in? Last time she told me to guide it in and it was extremely difficult and again i couldnt actually get into her deep enough that she could use it. I feel that maybe she should grab it and guide it in and lower herself onto it to make things work but she just didnt do that. I am not abnormally small in size. I am average I wuld say so it should not be a size issue at all. I have no problem having sex missionary but would like to add a few others to the mix as well to mix it up and make things a bit more adventurous and to give her some control on top as well. Please help me out as I am a novice at all this.
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Registered: 11-17-2005
Tue, 12-20-2005 - 5:23pm

Is she inexperienced too? WOT is my favorite b/c I control the depth, speed, etc. Have her straddle you, knees on each side. In any position you are in, whether sitting or laying flat, have her take her hand and guide your manhood in, as you said, lower herself onto you. This position allows for as much depth as she likes - she can control it - if you don't thrust into her. Or she can simply guide herself over your manhood until insertion is made. I always grab my DH's manhood and guide it in b/c he enjoys being touched and I enjoy touching it too! Also, after insertion is made ask her to sit straight up so you can enjoy the view!

Play around with the position and enjoy the adventure!

 

 

 

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Registered: 04-23-2004
Tue, 12-20-2005 - 7:14pm
With woman on top, I always guide him in with me leaning towards him a little bit.

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Tue, 12-20-2005 - 7:58pm
Even though I am of average size, I enjoy woman on top better when I put a pillow under my butt. This raises me higher to get more depth. This is also one of my favorite positions. It provides the man with a wonderful view and also allows him him to touch and play with her breasts.
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Registered: 09-22-2004
Wed, 12-21-2005 - 2:24pm
Thank you very much for the helpful insight. Actually my girlfriend and I are fairly new at this although she has had limited experience with one other before. I have a great fondness for my girlfriend but unfortunately my gf doesnt do the homework necessary to figure out how to better our sex life so here I am. I know I might sound like just another guy but a healthy sex life is very important to me. Although I waited many years to find someone I would be comfortable with I have always been sexual. Its all pretty new to me and I know I have a "freaky" side that I want to explore. I look forward to having fun with my gf as soon as the opportunity arises....lol


Edited 12/21/2005 2:27 pm ET by flyguy2004
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Registered: 11-17-2005
Thu, 12-22-2005 - 4:38pm
Your welcome and I hope you get to explore that "freaky" side!

 

 

 

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Tue, 02-14-2006 - 8:06pm

how do i say this... when you touch his penis what do you feel as a woman and what does it feel like to you? when you guide it in by hand what do you experience initially from the vagina?

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