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Position for women to orgasm
| Wed, 05-09-2007 - 3:22pm |
Just curious to see what position or positions you ladies like to be in to bring out the most intense orgasm's during sex? Missionary?

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I can orgasm in any positions.
It just depends on the woman. I only O in a modified missionary position ( and WOT if DH co-operates by not moving too much ) that involves DH positioned high up on my pubic bone. Instead of actual thrusting, he rubs/rocks his pelvis against me and I also rock upwards towards him.
For me intensity isn't a real issue because most of mine are pretty strong, but I've noticed that during the 4-5 days after my period, O's are weaker and during ovulation O's can almost causes me to loose unconsciousness because they are so strong. So, even the same woman can have variances in intensity with any position of choice.
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"Missionary" IS a position! It can be varied slightly with placement of pillows, or legs on shoulders, etc. But most women don't have orgasms from intercourse alone, they need clitoral stimulation at the same time. Most of the "descriptions" here don't mention it, but the position they describe means that they're getting that clitoral stimulation. That's why WOT is so popular.....rubbing the clitoris against the partner is what brings on the orgasms.
Also, intensity can vary for many reasons, the least of which would be the position. If you always did exactly the same position, the intensity would still vary. It depends on hormones, it depends on stress levels, being tired......many things.
And last but not least, every woman is different. What works for one might or might not work for another one.
Welcome to the board redrosey_gal.
It is usually easier for to orgasm during intercourse in the WOT position because your clitoris is being stimulated at the same time. According to reports, about 80% of women do not orgasm during intercourse alone. In the WOT position, your clitoris rubs against his pubic region (or testicles if facing reverse) which provides the needed stimulation for the orgasm.
Also, when you are on top, you are controlling the depth and speed of penetration. You can feel what your movements do for you and capitalize on those sensations. With more shallow penetration, you can also get g-spot stimulation and clitoral stimulation at the same time.
Your brain does have a lot to do with you having an orgasm, so if you "think" this is the only way you can have an orgasm, you can convince yourself of that. If you learn what type of movement, friction, spots, etc. help you achieve an orgasm, then you can learn to enjoy those same sensations in other positions. Sometimes you need to let your partner know what works for you, and that can also help you reach your goal at other times.
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