Positions for Plus Sized Ladys?

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Positions for Plus Sized Ladys?
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Wed, 09-01-2004 - 12:45pm
I am a plus sized woman and I sometimes feeel that I can not do differant postions with out feeling like I am a horse. Any sugestions?
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Wed, 09-01-2004 - 1:13pm
have you tried the scissors postition with you on your back? it allows for easier deep penetration.
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Registered: 05-27-2004
Wed, 09-01-2004 - 4:36pm
You're not saying you can't DO various position, you're saying you "feel like a horse" when you do them. This has to do with your own self-perception. If you're a plus size, Then that's what you are. Your partner KNOWS you're a plus sized woman, and doesn't care, and you shouldn't either.

I'm also plus sized, and there's only one position that I've found difficult, and that's old fashioned missionary, if my legs are being pushed back too far.....my stomach gets in the way, and it's difficult to breathe.

I haven't always been large, and even when I was thin, if you THINK about what you look like, you'll realize that MOST sexual positions are NOT flattering to our bodies, but then our partner isn't looking at us in that way at that time. When you're in the midst of a good sexual situation, what you LOOK like should be the least of your worries.

Your partner isn't worried about your size, or he wouldn't be there with you, and you shouldn't worry about it either. Very few of us have perfect bodies!

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Registered: 07-22-2004
Wed, 09-01-2004 - 6:04pm
Hi sms!

My wife is plus sized too, and boy is she irresistibly curvy...grrrr!! ;D

Best positions for us are doggy variations and her on top. We enjoy missionary, but thats more for the intimacy. The super orgasmic positions are the other ones.

Don't worry so much about feeling like a horse or what you look like, etc. You've GOT to relax and enjoy...my wife does, and there likely isn't much she hasn't felt bad about at first when it comes to sex and being nice and plump.

In fact, it would help to know what positions you have already tried and which ones you're comfortable with and not. Hope the replies help ya some.

:)

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