is this possible?

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Registered: 08-13-2004
is this possible?
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Sun, 11-07-2004 - 6:45pm
my DH last about 10 minutes in penetration sex he told me he had an sex experience with a Thai girl in Thailand that girl make him ejaculate in a minute he tried but he can't resist to ejacualte because he felt the girl had a mouth or hands inside her " down there" is this possible for a woman had this power on bed?
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Registered: 10-18-2001
In reply to: mrchk
Sun, 11-07-2004 - 9:29pm
There are muscles that are low in the abdomen that are called the Kegel muscles. It is possible to make them very strong with exercises. A woman can then use these muscles to squeeze her partner's penis when he is inside her. If the muscles are very strong and the woman has had a lot of practice using them it can feel like a 'hand' or 'mouth' gripping the man's penis and can feel very good for the man.

You can find where the muscles are by contracting the muscles in your abdomen when you are urinating. When you can stop the flow of urine, you have found the correct muscles.

Once you have found the muscles, you can strengthen them by contracting and releasing them several dozen times a day, everyday. You do not need to be urinating to practice. The more you use them, the stronger they will get.

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Registered: 05-27-2004
In reply to: mrchk
Mon, 11-08-2004 - 12:03am
Right advice, wrong location......the PC muscles are not in the abdomen.....they're at the bottom of your torso......they run from the pubic bone to the tail bone, and make a figure eight around the genitals.

Here are some instructions for men or women:

Exercises for the PC muscle:

Squeeze your PC muscle and hold for the count of 5, repeat ten times

Squeeze your PC muscle ten times fast, repeat 3 times

Squeeze your PC muscle in intervals of long / short for a count of 10, repeat 3 times

Squeeze your PC muscle and hold as long as you can. Work your way up to 2 minutes.

If you are a woman, squeeze your PC muscles while placing your finger just inside your vaginal canal

If you are a man, squeeze your PC muscle, such that you are able to tap the tip of your penis against your stomach

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Registered: 08-11-2004
In reply to: mrchk
Mon, 11-08-2004 - 10:04am
I remember a girl from my past who had the strongest vagina ever! It was like she was milking me, she had such amazing control and love to get on top and just squeeze and just "pull" the come out of me. Truly amazing and memorable. She was the only one who could ever do it. I wish it was more of a widespread talent!
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Registered: 07-06-2004
In reply to: mrchk
Mon, 11-08-2004 - 12:10pm
Congrats on your DH experiencing Thailand. The girls in Taiwan also have talent. Too bad most western women don't have a clue how to do it. Your DH is speaking the truth as the girls would get into cowboy position and sheath the member. After grasping the base with their openings, it does feel like a mouth or hands massaging the glans, but it's obviously vaginal muscles. There's nothing a guy can do at this point. Can't push her off due to the tight grasp, and she has complete control of the head. The urge to ejaculate comes fast. Many were talented enough to slide up and use their strong muscles on the underside vein behind the head and prevent a guy's ejaculation from leaving him and entering her. After the squirting urge subsides, she'd repeat it. After a few of these, a guy's testicles and prostate, and he, would literally be begging to complete his ejaculation within paradise.

Did your DH tell about picking up a quarter without hands, or opening a pop bottle, etc?

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Registered: 10-18-2001
In reply to: mrchk
Mon, 11-08-2004 - 3:00pm
>>Did your DH tell about picking up a quarter without hands, or opening a pop bottle, etc? <<

I saw a thai woman at a Ping Pong show use a small blowpipe to fire darts at balloons on the wall. Not only were the balloons burst, the dart had so much momentum that it continued on and stuck itself into the ceiling with some force!

That was a real "Things that make you go Hmmmm..." moment.

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Registered: 10-26-2004
In reply to: mrchk
Mon, 11-08-2004 - 3:30pm
Masturbation, masturbation. For women, and I would think for men as well, orgasm and arousal strengthens the pc muscles and the muscles surrounding the vagina. I have never done kegels, although I have always masturbated a few times a week, sometimes more, sometimes less. However, I am multi-orgasmic, and in fifteen minutes could have quite a few orgasms. During arousal, I can feel the inner walls of my vagina squeezing inward, which eventually causes orgasm. The vagina is made up of three layers. The first is the mucous layer, very similar to the lining of the mouth. The next layer is where the blood engorges(which during arousal causes the walls to press inward(very similar to penis engorgement), and the last is the muscles layer. The whole process of arousal through orgasm, and if capable, multi-orgasm emulates if not surpasses solo manual kegel exercises(when I do them, I feel mostly the surrounding muscles around the opening only squeeze inward, not at all similar to during arousal). I believe for men the same process is the stop and go method during masturbation.

I have had children, have had sex with very well endowed male for many many years, and I can still squeeze the life outta his penis if I want to. ;-) I can only attribute it to orgasms, had by either sex, or masturbation(moreso masturbation because there's more pulling inward without expansion by insertion of a penis.

Masturbation--making it tighter for the mightier. lol


Edited 11/8/2004 3:33 pm ET ET by ismelltheroses