post sex mess!

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Registered: 01-20-2007
post sex mess!
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Sat, 01-20-2007 - 2:14pm
i'm new here and new to this problem and need some tips. After quite some time of having sex using condoms, i've gotten in a committed relationship and no longer use them. I'm having a really hard time dealing with the "deposit" afterwards. It doesn't matter if I pee, shower etc. A lot of times about 30 minutes later I will feel that annoying trickling feeling in my crotch and need to change my undies. Very inconvenient if I have to dash out of the house after morning sex. How does one deal with this? Douche? Please help - i've never seen anything about this subject before.
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Registered: 12-12-2006
In reply to: yabbiedoo
Sat, 01-20-2007 - 2:30pm

Welcome to the world of unprotected sex! What you're feeling is normal and natural. Whatever is "deposited" in your vagina has to come out, and it takes it's good old time.

Once you're "upright" it starts draining, and depending on how much there is, it WILL take a while. There's not much you can do about it. If it's in the morning, try using a panty liner.

Whatever you do....DO NOT douche. That will leave you very susceptible to vaginal infections. The PH balance that protects you from yeast or bacterial infections will be thrown out of kilter by douching. The ONLY time a woman should ever douche is when directed by her gyno.....for a good reason.

Your vagina is "self cleaning", which is why "it" works its way out of you. You're not alone, it happens to everyone.

PS: Urinating doesn't help. Urine comes from the urethra, and has no effect on the vagina.




Edited 1/20/2007 2:32 pm ET by sakura2006
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Registered: 04-23-2004
In reply to: yabbiedoo
Sat, 01-20-2007 - 3:23pm

What goes up, must come down.


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Registered: 01-17-2007
In reply to: yabbiedoo
Sun, 01-21-2007 - 12:39pm
True it can be a nusiance, so if you have to go out right after shower and wear a pantyliner. Here is my problem though. when the cum moves around in me it is a big turn on. I always want to do it again. What do you do when you leave and are driving to work or at work and this turn on comes about?
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Registered: 02-28-2004
In reply to: yabbiedoo
Sun, 01-21-2007 - 5:15pm
It's always messy for me, but I find there is a lot less of a mess when I am on top when he ejaculates. I guess some of it comes out when I get off of him? I have no clue but that's how it is with me! It's still messy, but not as much and not as long.

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Registered: 01-17-2007
In reply to: yabbiedoo
Sun, 01-21-2007 - 5:50pm
The mess doesn't matter to me. It is a turn on and I love it
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Registered: 01-17-2007
In reply to: yabbiedoo
Mon, 01-22-2007 - 4:56pm
First of all dont douche, nothing is worse for your "vaginal health" then douching!
Second as far as I know there is nothing you can do about the mess....I always have the same issue and I pretty much have just learned to live with it.