Pounding too hard?

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Registered: 08-30-2005
Pounding too hard?
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Tue, 10-04-2005 - 5:17pm
I love having sex with my bf, he's really good and open sexually. Anyway, when we get busy, he likes to put me in a position where he has alot of control which i love ( I think it's the legs over his shoulders position). He likes to ram real hard, which doesn't hurt, but makes me feel like i have to pee all the time. the sex it great but why do i feel this way? i don't have a yeast infectio or UTI, so i don't know the problem. Is it just from pounding too hard?
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Registered: 04-23-2004
Tue, 10-04-2005 - 6:09pm

The feeling of having to urinate is normal and happens to many women many times right before an orgasm.


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Registered: 03-26-2003
Tue, 10-04-2005 - 10:40pm
You know your body and if this feels uncomfortable, instead of pleasurable, then tell him to take it easy. Your bladder will get bumped and banged during vigorous intercourse, so if this isn't doing it for you, then speak up.
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Registered: 10-18-2001
Wed, 10-05-2005 - 2:02am

>>Is it just from pounding too hard?<<

Basically, Yes. In that position you have your legs up which compressed your abdomen and squeezes your bladder. You are also having a penis stuffed into you - more pressure. And the pounding will compress things more.

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Registered: 08-04-2004
Wed, 10-05-2005 - 1:03pm

Hi,

I have the same issue with my guy. I don't know for what reason he really likes that position. My legs up over his shoulders and his whole body close to me. I feel a lot of pressure and to be honest it hurts a lot. However I enjoy it because he enjoys it.

I think that in this position is inevitable that he is going to hit your bladder, what I do is to empty my bladder in order to reduce the pain, but when I cannot take it any longer I just ask him to stop.

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Registered: 11-22-2004
Wed, 10-05-2005 - 4:37pm
My guy does exactly what you say except that from all the bumping _he_ is often the one that has to get up and pee. I have never been with a guy who likes to go at it so hard. But it doesn't hurt, it's sort of insanely pleasurable but it does feel like if he went one single millimeter further it would really hurt. I would say at least half the time he'll have to get up and go to the bathroom right in the middle of festivities. Which is ok, except for the time we were doing it in his car at night on a city street in NYC ... lol